When It’s Time To Let Go

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I’ve been reading Mandy Hales’ Sassy Survival Guide: Letting Go and Moving On and I’ve realized I have let go of some people and things in my life too. I’m one person who has a problem letting go; be it a person or anything in my possession. Sometimes I would still wear my worn out shoes or use my tattered bag because I easily get attached. Imagine how I feel when I have to let go of people.

I think we’re all guilty of trying to recycle relationships that need to be replaced.

But when do we stop holding on to people?

When they start sucking out all the energy that we have. When the environment becomes toxic.

When we’ve tried so hard to reach out, to show we care, to try to get involved with their lives but get pushed away.

When we feel like we’ve overstayed our welcome because the warmth suddenly turns cold.

When, as much as we want to connect with them, they won’t let us.

When they’ve limit themselves and built a wall around them and they won’t let us in.

When they have to start whispering or stop talking altogether when we’re around for some reason we may not understand.

When we have to limit ourselves from doing the things we want, going to places we want to go, because they can’t be with us. When we have to be somebody else around them because they don’t quite get what we want or say, even if all we’ve ever wanted is to bless them with what we have and know.

We stop holding on, simply when they start pushing us away.

I am one person who finds it hard to let go of someone or something—that I sense is also trying to hold on. But I also am quick to let go if I know that I’m the only one left holding on.

I am a very intuitive person. You don’t have to say a word. You don’t have to give me an explanation. I can read between the lines. I can read body language. I can detect when something’s going on behind my back. I sense awkwardness no matter how faint. I sense hostility no matter how much you cover it up with casual conversation or a forced smile.

There’s a season for everything. Maybe their time in our lives is over. Maybe they’ve already served their purpose. Maybe it’s healthier and better for us to go our separate ways or else we’ll end up hurting each other along the way.

When going separate ways, you should still pray for them and wish them well. Pray for God to remove any ill feelings this separation may have caused. Just remember that sometimes it’s best to love certain people from a distance. Sometimes you have to part ways with certain people. If they’re meant to be in your life, God will place them in your path again.

All we can do now is just thank God to have led us to them, because we’ve learned, we’ve loved, we’ve grown and hopefully we’ve become better through them.

I may not always understand why things need to end, or how we started to drift apart but as always, I believe everything happens for a reason.

I may not always know what went wrong , but as the seasons change, so should people. So should relationships.

And as always, it’s for the best.

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    Even with blood relatives

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Shannon Stafford

    Awesome and true on every arena of life

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Chelsea Adonis

    Thts so true let go of people who wanna hold you back they not worth it God will place someone in your life to spend your whole life with in his time the lords always on time.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Marcia Pratt

    This is true

  • http://www.facebook.com/linda.falke.7 Linda Falke

    Let him go! Let him go!
    Don’t you hold on anymore!
    Let him go! Let him go!
    Turn away and slam the door!

    Sorry! I <3 “Frozen,” and I couldn’t resist.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Mbali Primrose Mposula

    Yes n Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Esther Udoh

    Very true

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Paulett Fletcher

    So true

  • http://www.facebook.com/sherrie.harneygiroux Sherrie Harney Giroux

    I am also in this awful situation. It amazes me how God gives me what I need when I need it. It is so hard to end a 24 yr marriage but I know I must. My life and happiness depend on it. God is with me and I will take this one day at a time. I pray and cry constantly but will fight on. The Lord will see me thru, I firmly believe this. Good luck girls hold tight to God. He will not forsake us !!!! Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Crissy Hoffert

    I seem to have a lot of these. Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nngozi Mavis

    Sure

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nompumelelo Muhle Ziqubu

    Amen…God knows best

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Christina Carroll

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ J’Vonne Renee Ogles

    Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nthabiseng Sambo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Krystal Self-Laguna

    Abbie Campbell :o

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Belinda Richardson

    Amen… this happened to me last night. God is so good

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lynette Camacho

    And when they come back …peps don’t let them go…

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sandra B Johnson

    Going thur this now

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kofoworola Ayeriyina

    Amen n na true my sister

  • http://www.facebook.com/hugette.lebeau Hugette Lebeau

    I agree even with your family

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Mbali Selahle

    amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Diane Shaw Chevalier

    Ok ladies I need help I left my husband of 13 years because of verbal and emotional abuse with a 10 year old son who needed a break from the arguing. I left our son with him till I could get me figured out. Well after living with mom and friends for 16 months and not finding a job oh yeah I lost my job in the midst of all this. I got back together with him because I missed my son so much, now a year later its brutal a dog gets treated better than me but if I leave again im leaving my son which I can’t bear and i don’t want to leave him with his dad but I don’t have the means to take my son with me. What do I do?

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Patrine James

      I think you should find the root of the problem and fix that. What exactly is causing you to argue so much?? Think about it. And work on that. Work on you. And vise versa. If you don’t fix the problem you will always be arguing x

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lauren Curtis

    Lauren Quayle

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Judy Goff Rogers

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ifunanya Adirika

    ….letting go nd trusting God..

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Diana Washington

    God will always make a way for you

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Marianne Cook

    Wow! That is powerful!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Neresa Becong

    amen..its hard to let go when ur heart says no not yet..but if that is the best for us i will…God is there..

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Joanna Spaw

    What if that person is your husband??

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ruby Lombardo

    Amen!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Adebola Adesokan-Osisami

    God help me.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Getrude Mphake

    AMEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Fred Akweteh

    Excellent

  • http://www.facebook.com/curtisncynthia Cynthia Jessie

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Anna Majoko

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sylvia Gomez

    Amen that ‘s so true I am struggling to part ways with hi and trying to work out can ….

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Andrea C Duran

    Evelyn Caballero

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Henrietta Achiamaa

    I have learnt that now

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Thando Pooe

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nelly Sangweni

    Amen to dat..if it meant 2 b it will come back 2 u

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Pretty Siganga

    True that

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ruth Hayes

    Amen so true Let go and let God

  • http://www.facebook.com/ingrid.c.hayes Ingrid Carro Hayes

    Amén

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Doris Owunnah

    So true

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Amber Starr

    Amen.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Estelle Taylor Jacobs

    Yeah as test perhaps ;)

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Monica Matwa

    AMEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/sylv.meks Sylv Meks

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Debra K Reece

    What if it’s your ex bf that you were very much in love with has come back

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Noma Gwedashe

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Linda T Ruiz Goberdhan

    True

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Crissy Bankz

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Pamela Sanders

    True

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Suzette Lockett

    That is a very true statement amen let go let God cause he will work it out

  • http://www.facebook.com/faye.logan3 Faye Logan

    amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Karla Franjul

    Read this!! Laura Darley

  • rex

    Thank you. If you do asked me 18 years ago when I married if I believed this I would have said no. But now I must leave before I go mad. I have postponed this decision twice in 14 years. But I can’t anymore. I’m a different person. I’ll never live my life if I do not leave now. She’s shocked because I just announced I’m leaving. She’s asking why, I’m saying I have been talking for the last 18 years and you haven’t listened. I love her. I love our children.but I can’t live with her anymore. It took me so long to have this courage. Thank you for confirming my decision to move on.bim full of inner peace..

    • Britt

      I believe in marriage and what God has for marriage. I strongly encourage you to seek counseling with your wife. I have been married ten years and my husband decided to do the same thing. I couldn’t imagine being married 18 years and my husband leaving. The emotional stress alone is hard enough and it isn’t God’s best. I am not here to bash you but to encourage you to first seek counsel before you make a life-changing decision. I hope that you and your wife can discover what is causing the marital breakdown and your marriage be restored. I believe it will be stronger!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Leisa Henry-Herrera

    Totally relate to this right now!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Annette Williams

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Annette Williams

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/judy.patton.54 Judy Patton

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ AGodmade Poet

    Omg this is Confirmation…..Let them Go all in Love!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Pamela Gordon

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Betty Honaker

    Think you

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Shannan McRae

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Latoya Houston

    amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/lula.lewis.77 Lula Lewis

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sheila Carter

    So true

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Melissa Wright

    Have faith in God he wants to see you happy

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Jessica Fudge

    Maci Bazer

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Alice Goosby

    True!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Suki Kalyan

    Very true….needed this today

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Hazvinei Pamela Madamombe

    Ummm

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Imelda Chinyelu Agu

    Dis is really true & practical cos am a witness to dat

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Freda Thwala

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Heather Smothers

    Florine Holmes Downing!! More confirmation for me

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kemely Videau

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Tori Lewis

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kat Sanchez Ferrer

    Iv’z Acosta for us :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/ June Hayashida

    Thank u, I need to forgive and work on myself.

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Yolanda Mimi Ndike

      June its hrd 4 me gal 2 forgive i wnt 2 bt its vry hrd thn i endup sayng i wil nvr 4gv

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Annaliza Largo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Monica Tembo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Carlene Stephenson- Boland

    True words…

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Joseph Githua

    Sure

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Joycesoblessed Prater

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Carmen Turbessi

    Judy Hannum

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Earlean Garcia

    amen its hard to let go.only by depending on the Lord Jesus are we able to

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sonny Ukpong Jr

    So much hurt I’m seeing from women in this post.. Women please do us a favor. Spend some time getting to know our past before you fall in love with us. You fall in love too quickly with us. You give your heart away too soon to us. Many of us are not ready but being Men, we “act” and “try” to carry the load. Don’t fall in love first then try to figure out our past. Many men are damaged but will NEVER show it.This is ruining many relationships and marriages. Society has changed, there is tremendous pressure on relationships nowadays.Never let a man damage you. Fight hard to be the Virtuous women that God wants you to be.You are precious and the right man will recognize and treat you as such. So cry, wipe your tears away and put that smile back on your face. God loves you…

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Yolanda Mimi Ndike

      I hv told myslf dat i wil nvr 4gv n 4get cz of bad thngs dat has hppn 2 me bt i knw god dnt wnt dat i am vry damaged sw

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Jocilyn Hudson

      The fact that some of us are hurt…gives no man an excuse or gage effect to damage us! Try being honest and upfront about what you want from us! That won’t happen bcos men know if they’re brutally honest about wanting NSAs and FWBs the chances of ” scoring” decrease greatly! Then….men could NEvER damage women!

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Cornelia Elmore

      Sonny, simply beautiful! Thank you for hearing God’s heart. The late Dr. Maya Angelou said “when a person shows you WHO they are, believe them”. God’s love.

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Sophie Mokgethoa

      Powerful words my brother, thank you.

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Ameesha Luckhun

      Brother Sonny, so true about that. Great message..God bless you!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Renita Rada Santiago

    so true..

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Marites Torillo

    I’m letting him go

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nathalie Nieveld

    Yes

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Gladys Mahiti

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Leaudriea Gussett

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lucy Wanjiku

    Exactly!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Suama Tutangeni

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nitrisha McLean

    Iyata Fiyah

  • http://www.facebook.com/ MmaSamukelo QM Nhlapo

    Powerful and wise words. May God give us His wisdom so that we can learn to let go.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Michelle Williams

    True, true, true!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Aletheia Moore Wilson

    Excellent article

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Maria Gladinia Ramirez Dayrit

    God knows what is best for us. There’s a reason for everything… I’m going through this stage, It’s really hard but God is always here for us…thank you God for giving me strength to let go and moving on. I praise you my God and I love you,amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Rosetta Rutter

    True,true!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Jessica Viera

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ella Ladislao

    Let him go

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Rhulani Lindiwe Hlongwane

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Feliza Guzman Tilap

    Yes.keep prayin

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Josie Mitchem

    Wow if that’s not sending me a message from God then I don’t know what is! Great message so true!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Joselyn Velasco

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sandra Arenas Nunez Gutierrez

    Amèn I am letting go my husband left 11 months ago n n I have been standing so I l surrender him to Hod n let God move those mountains God knows n I will follow the path God has provided for me! God’s will not my will!

  • http://www.facebook.com/renata.m.smith.1 Renata Monique Smith

    I believe this!#trustinggodsplan

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Pricilla Dominguez

    Erykah Carr

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Monika Pudyastuti

    I hope someone getting back in my pathway

  • http://www.facebook.com/gloriana.kumar Gloriana Kumar

    Thank you….

  • http://www.facebook.com/carolyn.livingston.9 Carolyn Livingston

    This is right on time..I love it!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ruben Manriquez

    Tengo mas de 5 anos que dane a mi familia y he podido alejarla de mi Vida y no he podido salir del abujero en el que me meti. Y no he dejado que Dios haga lo que quiere de mi, creo que es tiempo de dejar ir lo hise y empesar a buscar mi camino cerca de Dios. Gracias x tu comentario. God bless you.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Christine Mangaoang Cahilig

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/martha.mcintosh.98 Martha Caine McIntosh

    Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Reannie Magno

    Joyce Avenue!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Tshidi Mogomotsi

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Rosalind Jackson-Stewart

    Amen-I love messages that confirm everything I need to believe. I receive this with an open and trusting heart. Let go. Carol Cook -

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Joyce Avenue

    Lord, please remove this feeling… :(

  • http://www.facebook.com/mary.rollins.144 Kat Rollins

    yes as ELSEA sings let it go.after u turn loose it over and done

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Analiza Naldo

    Very true…let God decide for it…

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Gwen Bickers

    Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Rachel Antonacci Remy

    AMEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/linda.baxter.39 Linda Baxter

    amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Babie Cee Fnz

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lynda Rogers

    So very well said & at just the right time

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Trudy Jorgensen

    That is perfect

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Mokwebo Vhutshilo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kia Strange

    Thank you jesus! Amen

  • Thembelani Violet Mtombeni

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ceneal Cee

    Amen.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Santa Ramos

    It happen to me is like you taking about me.Is so thru!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Santa Ramos

    Es cierto trate de mantener una relacion creyendo el hiba a cambiar su alcolismo y numca paso.!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kathy Jacobs-mcloyd

    You are right on Sonny Ukpong!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Constance Mogwane

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbara.sexton.796 Barbara Ingram Sexton

    Amen please help us

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ann Jelly Valencia

    Marian , let’s keep moving forward..

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nomvula Qupe

    Yep and Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Dominica Marry

    So true

  • http://www.facebook.com/emilysichinga Emi Sichinga

    Amen.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Angela Draft

    Amen !

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Alyssa Baylock

    This article is right on time… I love how the Lord always finds a way to get His message across to me. Thank you for sharing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Brittany Wilt

    I prayed and here you go Rob Dino Berryhill Jesus sent!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lita Milan

    Mpve pn with Jesus by your side.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Cee Madimbe

    True

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Fahrah Fawn

    Good article…I need that reminder

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  • http://www.facebook.com/ Ray Avire

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Khezia Mkhwanazi

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Yvonne Chagaresango

    Amen its true

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Juliet Muchairi

    Amen in jesus name

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Noma Sibanda

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Jocilyn Hudson

    I have the gift of goodbye down packed!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Heather Pauli

    Thank u for this article….. Am trying to get the strength to let go now of someone I love but it is so hard: (

    • http://www.facebook.com/ Yolanda Mimi Ndike

      U r not alone my lv

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Neii Changsan

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Olivia van der Wath

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Winnie Regino Bilbao

    thank you …AMEN AMEN AMEN in JESUS name..

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sherry Raybon Mastin

    Me too Heather Pauli

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Nokuthula Prudance Tatshu

    True

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lindiwe Dube

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Alina Maamogwa

    Definitely

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Dimpho Winny

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Maricruz Rashidi

    Amen having a hard time letting go my love pass 7 months ago and I miss him so much .I cry I pray I think of him.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lesliec.penn Leslie C Penn

    Ameno

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Duduzile Sibanda Ndawana

    inspired Lord lead the way i will follow we tend to spend most of our tyme wondering wat we did wrong in order to be hurt deliberatly and forget to surrender our pains and suffering to God he already has an answer

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Theresa Dibotelo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Oyintando Nolundi Kiki Moni

    AMEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Naomi Nerberts

    Great

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Kusheshe Mkhabela Dinangwe Dlomo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Mpho G Galeboe

    amen 2 tht

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Anthony Kelley

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Jacqui Mthiya

    It aint easy…bt im tryn very hard

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Loriegene Baladad

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Oyintando Nolundi Kiki Moni

    AMEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Julie Ann Tagari

    Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Karen Britton-Houston

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Yolanda Mimi Ndike

    Its tym 2 be a big gal nw n move on wit my lyf

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Samukelisiwe Khumalo

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Zakhewu Yehla

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Milina Dube

    True though its not easy

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Susan Kang

    yes. 100%. timely article

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Alpho Sismay

    That’s true

  • http://www.facebook.com/ June Hayashida

    None of its want to give up, but sometimes we give up because in our hearts we know that the certain love isn’t right. Forgiving is a part of healing. I know the man i fell in love with was hurting deep down from past relationships. I gave him time, I’ve cried with him and for him, prayed for him, given him my heart, I’ve been there for him, and yet he doesn’t let his guard down, so I’ve decided to put him in Gods hands, i continue to pray for him, still love him. more than anything i want a solid relationship with him. I forgive him, and love him, but have let him go. And i thank God that he was in my life for the time we had together.

    • Hellen

      I feel you. . I have never stopped crying since I let him go out of my life few days back. . It hurts so much . I had a choice of begging him to stay in my life. But my intuition told me that it was like a broken glass. . I don’t know what went wrong all of a sudden. . But ya life goes on. .

  • http://www.facebook.com/tshililo.mudzuli Tshililo Mudzuli

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Cynthia Maphosa

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Mmapula Sepotokele

    Amen…

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Homsera Rongchaicho Terangpi

    Thank God for He bestowed me wisdom to part ways from him years back as his purpose in my life was for a season n thank God we just moved on with our own lives though was hard at that time.If i keep holding on then my present would be a miserable one for he is just not meant for me as per Gods will ……we cant yoke with non believer for a relationship.Remembering him dont hurt anymore but am much happy now waiting for His timing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Gem Estolas

    I had people whom i treasure as good friends in life. I find myself doing the effort to make them feel how much they mean to me only to find out i don’t have any value for them at all. They always ignore me. I don’t wanna give up but it’s been 11 years that i’m holding on and nothing has changed still. I don’t know if i should let go but it feels like it’s the only way i can finally free myself from hurting.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Noma Mapange

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Raphael Chita Cloete

    amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Sandra Malipa

    Just what I am going through letting go can be hard but have to do it because its best for me….knowing God has someone better for me.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lyneve.pillay Lyneve Pillay

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Lina Lou Gitalan

    Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/lyneve.pillay Lyneve Pillay

    Amen

  • Dann

    This doesn’t apply in marriage. God hates divorce. Nothing is beyond God’s power to heal and restore. Never ever let go in marriage.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Zoey Smith

    Interesting read

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Micheal Lecky

    please I need you all to join me in prayers for the Lord to heal me of cancer will also like to make some new Christian friends

  • AllisWell

    Everything you have said is true, after I end up my 8 years of relationship I never expected how it feels so right. At first it feels like its the end of my life months after along side with deep prayer that He will heal the pain I am fine now. Totally renewed me. .

  • Ligia Ashook

    Thank you for helping women who need to know that even if it hurts letting go a person or something that we get attached and is not good, God always lift us up and take us to a much better person or situation. God bless us all.

  • Hellen

    Thanks. . The article is an eye opener. . I’m fresh from a broken relationship. . I’m hurting so much. . But it make sense. .

  • maree

    Amen, just realized that my 12 year marriage is over – it never really began, it’s all not real our vows and my life of hardship has mean’t nothing!!. My husband has just strung me along for financial/sexual purposes. It’s all been a farce. He doesn’t care about me/ not about anything apart from my skills of holding down a job. All the time whilst he holds a position in church acting/pretending whilst not leading a christian life – and as I’ve just found out/realised that he is/was happier when I was in a backsliden and lost state. And has been unconsciously/conscoiusly doing whatever he can to keep me unsettled and out of a relationship and the will of God.

  • jhanate

    It was 4years ago when there is someone who showed me love,feel that im so important to his life but behind of this im not the only one to his life..there so many times id tried to let go my feelings of him but until now deep inside of my heart all the memories that i had with him is still here. I dont know why?now that even if we dont have any communication im still hoping that one day will cross our path again..while im reading this..i been realized that its better to save your heart to someone you knew at the end could never be yours..and its better to love from a distance instead of forcing yourself to be love even if it will not possible to happen.its better to love from a far just to save your heart from the aches that will be cause of losing yourself..and maybe you might be hurt some else for choosing that someone even if he already taken to some else.

  • Denise

    I was reading this article and I couldn’t denied my eyes start crying, I truly believe in god and i been trying to get some answerand find the way to letting go the man who show me the way of faith and love during 5 years, I still loving him but i understand our season ends… and its time to let him go away of my life. .

  • dee

    Thank you needed this article..

  • El

    this sounds just like me lol

  • http://www.so-blessed.co.za BrokenHearted

    What happens if that person is my husband?

    • faylin

      My person to let go was my exhusband. I was with him 18 years. So, you can only imagine my pain as this was my best friend “I thought” as if he was, he would still be in my life as my “husband”.I still love him. But I love him at a distance and with a different love now. We still communicate as we have two young adult children together, but I am into my 3rd year of not being with him. I am just starting to accept that I need let it go cause the pain is much to great to keep holding on to what “I think I want/need” with him. If God want us to be back together it will happen. If we are not meant to be back together, I am okay with that now. It took me sometime to get to this mind set as I too was truly brokenhearted. But, there is hope sweety! Trust God and put your focus on him and ask him to give you other positive things to occupy your mind. He will but don’t give up hope!

      • http://www.so-blessed.co.za BrokenHearted

        Thank you Faylin, I know that God hates divorce so I have been so reluctant to let go but I have to believe that God’s grace will cover me when I go and that God will understand that it’s not right to stay in such an emotional abusive and destructive relationship. Please pray for me that God will open a door for me.

  • De Hoedt

    I think yu might be reading a different bible. Please do not lie and confuse people. God is verry clear about the intuition of marriage. i’m pretty sure this is not the will of GOD.

  • http://www.facebook.com/leilani.m.klask Leilani Michelle Klask

    Time

  • http://www.facebook.com/queta.martinez.98 Queta Martinez

    Amen and so yrue

  • http://www.facebook.com/cora.smart Cora Smart

    Purge yourself but you don’t always have to look back

  • http://www.facebook.com/january.haus January Da Bears Haus

    Amen! The best thing you can do is to submit and sacrifice them back to God

  • http://www.facebook.com/melissa.franklin.733 Melissa Franklin

    Amen give me stream for my life

  • http://www.facebook.com/joseph.laffoon Joey Laffoon

    Agreed.

  • http://www.facebook.com/Terri.Jones1964 Terri Jones

    So true..amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/geneace.bennett Geneace Pace Bennett

    Yea it’s time

  • http://www.facebook.com/ Myesha Holmes-Thomas

    Tonya Ellen

  • http://www.facebook.com/vanvills Vanessa Alea Ferrer Villanueva

    Doy-an Clarion

  • http://www.facebook.com/syerra.hall Syerra Hall

    Courtney Guinee Lockey

  • http://www.facebook.com/donna.richardson.52035 Donnette Richardson

    Hallelujah Amen

  • http://www.facebook.com/kelly.k.hamilton1 Kelly Alice Kuglitsch

    Kelli Bock

  • http://www.facebook.com/sheree.sims1 Sheree R. Sims

    It will hurt and be disappointing but it will bring peace also. Trust when God gives you discernment.

  • http://www.facebook.com/julia.fry.961 Julia Fry

    So true…not easy, but true!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/marifella.malanay.9 Marifella Malanay

    Absolutely ..true need that to see if your meant to each other

  • hariet

    I don’t believe i can ever let go….I was so broken…but i thank God for renewing me…

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