When It’s Time To Let Go

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I’ve been reading Mandy Hales’ Sassy Survival Guide: Letting Go and Moving On and I’ve realized I have let go of some people and things in my life too. I’m one person who has a problem letting go; be it a person or anything in my possession. Sometimes I would still wear my worn out shoes or use my tattered bag because I easily get attached. Imagine how I feel when I have to let go of people.

I think we’re all guilty of trying to recycle relationships that need to be replaced.

But when do we stop holding on to people?

When they start sucking out all the energy that we have. When the environment becomes toxic.

When we’ve tried so hard to reach out, to show we care, to try to get involved with their lives but get pushed away.

When we feel like we’ve overstayed our welcome because the warmth suddenly turns cold.

When, as much as we want to connect with them, they won’t let us.

When they’ve limit themselves and built a wall around them and they won’t let us in.

When they have to start whispering or stop talking altogether when we’re around for some reason we may not understand.

When we have to limit ourselves from doing the things we want, going to places we want to go, because they can’t be with us. When we have to be somebody else around them because they don’t quite get what we want or say, even if all we’ve ever wanted is to bless them with what we have and know.

We stop holding on, simply when they start pushing us away.

I am one person who finds it hard to let go of someone or something—that I sense is also trying to hold on. But I also am quick to let go if I know that I’m the only one left holding on.

I am a very intuitive person. You don’t have to say a word. You don’t have to give me an explanation. I can read between the lines. I can read body language. I can detect when something’s going on behind my back. I sense awkwardness no matter how faint. I sense hostility no matter how much you cover it up with casual conversation or a forced smile.

There’s a season for everything. Maybe their time in our lives is over. Maybe they’ve already served their purpose. Maybe it’s healthier and better for us to go our separate ways or else we’ll end up hurting each other along the way.

When going separate ways, you should still pray for them and wish them well. Pray for God to remove any ill feelings this separation may have caused. Just remember that sometimes it’s best to love certain people from a distance. Sometimes you have to part ways with certain people. If they’re meant to be in your life, God will place them in your path again.

All we can do now is just thank God to have led us to them, because we’ve learned, we’ve loved, we’ve grown and hopefully we’ve become better through them.

I may not always understand why things need to end, or how we started to drift apart but as always, I believe everything happens for a reason.

I may not always know what went wrong , but as the seasons change, so should people. So should relationships.

And as always, it’s for the best.

Lux Ganzon

Visit her blog: at Bared My Soul
Lux Ganzon is a licensed pharmacist, an introvert and a bibliophile who loves to spend her time travelling and exploring new territories.

442 Comments

  1. Stacy Sammons

    August 9, 2014 at 7:24 pm

    Truth

  2. Nam Peter

    August 9, 2014 at 7:25 pm

    Good!

  3. Puleng Eve Pulumo

    August 9, 2014 at 7:25 pm

    Amen

  4. Ekezie Sylveria

    August 9, 2014 at 7:26 pm

    I love dis!

  5. Amogelang Tukisi

    August 9, 2014 at 7:26 pm

    Amen!

  6. Shirley Cotton

    August 9, 2014 at 7:26 pm

    Amen

  7. Lindani Mable Mwachibinga

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    timeless truth…!Amen

  8. Gissel Makawa Mussa

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    I agree wth u

  9. May Maambo Mphande

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    Let it be so!

  10. Loving Bre J

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    Amen

  11. Bgal Twizer Mmoltsa

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    True dat!

  12. Mari DeLeon

    August 9, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    Veronica / Maricela

    • Maricela Mendenhall

      August 9, 2014 at 10:17 pm

      Most definitely! Doesn’t mean you don’t forgive that person either! I know I totally have forgiven them! :)

  13. Maipelo Nkwane

    August 9, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    True. .

  14. Zelda Moela

    August 9, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    Amen.. Thanks needed to hear that. .

  15. Cynthia Mmoko

    August 9, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    True

  16. Samantha Simoneaux Dupuis

    August 9, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    Amen

  17. Wendy Ayanda Mthembu

    August 9, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    Sooo true

  18. Diketso Mosia

    August 9, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    Amen

  19. Chinwendu Okagu

    August 9, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    Yes

  20. Zizipho Zeezoe

    August 9, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    Yeah

  21. Hope Faith Hope

    August 9, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    That is sooo true I am struggling to part ways with him though it is really not working out…i need the strength to just let go n move on…

    • Harriet Addi

      August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

      Going tru d same bt i know wif time am gona 4get him

    • Nkiruka Otamba

      August 9, 2014 at 7:42 pm

      The truth is if don’t encourage urself no one will…u just have to let go.

    • Lynda Rogers

      August 10, 2014 at 2:25 am

      I’ve never been treated well in this marriage & although I knew it I just cannot get through to him. Feel like its time to let go

  22. Belz Mabasa

    August 9, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    I accept! !!

  23. Mushemura Anne

    August 9, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    Absolutely

  24. Geofrey Himinyu

    August 9, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    Amen

  25. Dimakatso Mana Maleka

    August 9, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    I accept

  26. Rechelle Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    Let go and Let God

  27. Sumaila Konadu Rahman Khris

    August 9, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    Thats how it is

  28. Phindi Thubane

    August 9, 2014 at 7:31 pm

    True

  29. Pamela Burris

    August 9, 2014 at 7:31 pm

    Amen

  30. Thembelani Violet Mtombeni

    August 9, 2014 at 7:31 pm

    Amen

  31. Geneva Garrett

    August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    thats what im doing wright now

  32. Gloria Emuobonuvie Osunde

    August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    amen.

  33. Nwabisa Dolly

    August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    yesssss tru.I believe in dat,thank U.Amen.

  34. Akinbobola Olayinka

    August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    Yea, just made up my mind to that effect as regards a certain person in my life.

  35. Sinthanie Sisya

    August 9, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    Amen.in God i trust :-)

  36. Mimee Beulah Gideon

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    For REAL

  37. Thabi Mokwatlo

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Thats true. Let go nd let God.

  38. Loni Dawn Schultz

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Dianna Fisher

  39. Ayanda Shange

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Amen to dat

  40. Lebo Moloi

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Absolutely

  41. Ashley Marie Dauzat

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Amen, great article!

  42. Fajolu Kemisola

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    Amen

  43. Corina Lazcano

    August 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    So true!

  44. Amanda KhetheloleNkosi Nyembe

    August 9, 2014 at 7:34 pm

    Amen

  45. Jen Walker

    August 9, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    What if that person is your own mother, who has let’s just say, been very hurtful towards you in her words? We’ve been going through a thing and I’ve been trying to be openly honest by speaking the truth in love, she just won’t listen or hear me out, she rebuttals with very hurtful things, about not wanting to talk to me, about not me not ever asking her to do anything for me, which I rarely ever do because I know how she can be. Now, it’s her questioning my Christianity, which hurts deeply and she knows it. I just don’t know what to do anymore. All the while, I keep hearing in my head a mother is not supposed to be like this.

    • Pinkey Hines

      August 9, 2014 at 7:48 pm

      Pray for her move on and give it too god and love her from a distance…bless you

    • Cornelia Elmore

      August 9, 2014 at 8:37 pm

      Dealing with family members can be CRUSHING!!! It will take prayer and staying away. If at all possible. Guard your heart by staying away for a while. Deal with family members as Jesus did; Know you NOT, I must be about my father’s business. If our mother, father, sister, brother or whomever can’t receive us…it’s time to let them go and serve the Lord. Sounds COLD but consider eternity. Jesus paid an awesome price for you to be His; you were theirs for a time, but now you belong to Him – serve Him, not man.

    • Kath Reen

      August 10, 2014 at 12:24 am

      I can relate to you Jen walker

  46. Cherie Roebuck

    August 9, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    Hard to do but true!

  47. Momina Pais

    August 9, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    ;( ;( ;( Many times God gives us the strength to let go … But we the ones that keep going back and holding on . May God grant us the grace to obey Him and do His will … Lets live lives that pleases our Creator .

  48. Vanessa Thrift

    August 9, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    Trusting God to take the hurt!

  49. Janet Kachidza

    August 9, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    So true

  50. Ivie MaNkae Ncube

    August 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Yah ne…dats powerful

  51. Chidinma Azoro

    August 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    true talk!!!!!

  52. Summerose Mbali

    August 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    I wnt to but it is hrd

  53. Shadi Montjane

    August 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Amen

  54. Dee Butler

    August 9, 2014 at 7:37 pm

    Wow

  55. Lulu Dillard

    August 9, 2014 at 7:37 pm

    So true, AMEN!!

  56. Yuwan Simpas

    August 9, 2014 at 7:38 pm

  57. Verdra Boyd

    August 9, 2014 at 7:38 pm

    Amen!!!

  58. Anita James

    August 9, 2014 at 7:38 pm

    FATHER GOD, please help me in this area of my life and I thank YOU

  59. Ebonie Simms

    August 9, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    Wow

  60. Mirelda Hels

    August 9, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    Herkenbaar Hesdey van Assen!

  61. Deborah Anderson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    hard to let go it hurts

  62. Sam Smith

    August 9, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Amen

  63. Eudith Madibuseng Mokheseng

    August 9, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    God has given me strength 2 walk away n walk tal truth of de matter time heals!

  64. Zanele Pelliay

    August 9, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Yea

  65. Blessing Oruwa

    August 9, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    I need your help Lord !

  66. Yongama Yongi AmaBhele Mahle

    August 9, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    mmmm this is sooo true even though letting go is not an easy chapter

  67. Mahlao Tohlang

    August 9, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    Amen

  68. Gail Sellu

    August 9, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    You have to know when to hold them and when to fold them, according to Kenny Rodgers! Amen!

  69. Lisa Harwood

    August 9, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    Amen…I needed that today – Thank you Lord for finding ways to deliver your message

  70. Erica Hyatt

    August 9, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    True

  71. Monica Lekonga

    August 9, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    Thats true.

  72. Agie Kirabo

    August 9, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    Gd advice

  73. Mofokeng Mmona Gloria

    August 9, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    Amen

  74. Sandi Meg

    August 9, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    so rtue…

  75. Alison Fabé

    August 9, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    God helped me walk away from a 15 year friendship. The way it happened was not good. It hurt both sides badly, I was blinded, but since then I am a happier person. Why? only through Gods grace.

  76. Gladys Katyaurere

    August 9, 2014 at 7:44 pm

    Thats true

  77. Charl Samuels

    August 9, 2014 at 7:44 pm

    So true

  78. Joss Riturban

    August 9, 2014 at 7:45 pm

    Moses Olis

  79. Utrophia Vivian

    August 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    Amen

  80. Inolia Thulani

    August 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    Amen

  81. Kim Sechrist

    August 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    Marriage is different. We are to pray for our spouses to be saved and return to the relationship.

    • Kim Gambill

      August 9, 2014 at 8:25 pm

      Ha, I just saw your response after I wrote mine. Yes so true. Thx

    • Sandra Arenas Nunez Gutierrez

      August 10, 2014 at 12:42 am

      I’ve been standing but now feel I need to let go he has been gone for 1 year no divorce yet but he will file the first filing God intervened n dismissed case!!

    • Kim Gambill

      August 10, 2014 at 3:22 am

      Sandra, it isn’t our time but Gods. I have been standing for 6 years. I have friends that have been standing longer.

  82. Senzeni Hazel Nduna

    August 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    Amen

  83. Rejoice Sophie Simachela

    August 9, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    God give me th grace

  84. Bupe Chiyesu

    August 9, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    Amen, jst wat i nided to hear. Thank u lord Jesus fo da luvly msg.

  85. Vaidah Roki Prosser

    August 9, 2014 at 7:48 pm

    Yes Amen

  86. Zandile Sty

    August 9, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    true

  87. Buyiswa Babycakes Mazibuko

    August 9, 2014 at 7:50 pm

    This is so True bt God has a purpose for everything

  88. Jessica Spooner

    August 9, 2014 at 7:50 pm

    What about a marriage?

    • Cornelia Elmore

      August 9, 2014 at 8:16 pm

      Godly counseling is always an option. Especially with a pastor that you both TRUST. Please do not make the mistake of telling someone that is a busybody or a gossip about your affairs; ;YES, even in the church. Be prayerful, God knows and loves you.

    • Kim Gambill

      August 9, 2014 at 8:26 pm

      Pray and let God work on him. It’s very hard but that is what He calls us to do.

    • Verica Rauza

      August 9, 2014 at 11:24 pm

      any personality traits can be changed by God, just pray for them, but if someone hurts you physically, please RUN. My sister was in a toxic marriage, where he would get drunk and than hurt her, by choking her nearly to death, or chasing her around the house with a knife in his hand, God would not want you to die a senseless death just so you can prove that you are a good Christian, by staying with this kind of husband. But that said you can keep praying for this kind of person and not live under the same roof.

  89. Mary Lou Lozano Hyde

    August 9, 2014 at 7:51 pm

    I pray each & everyday that my Lord God will someday bring us back together till do us part. I will wait. Amen

  90. AlphaLou Elkins

    August 9, 2014 at 7:51 pm

    Lauren Elkins

  91. Rozelle Baatjies

    August 9, 2014 at 7:52 pm

    Some ppl don’t see it that way and then its difficult to accept…

    • Kim Gambill

      August 9, 2014 at 8:28 pm

      It doesn’t matter what people think, it matters what God says.

  92. Miriam Mwanandimai

    August 9, 2014 at 7:53 pm

    Tha’t true

  93. Tara Wilson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:53 pm

    I love this :).

  94. Kimbalee Garcia

    August 9, 2014 at 7:54 pm

    WOW!!ll l belive & receive god will deliver today!!

  95. Sandra Mudakureva

    August 9, 2014 at 7:54 pm

    I agree 100%.

  96. Charlene Murphy

    August 9, 2014 at 7:54 pm

    amen

  97. KimNiah Adegnuga Edwards

    August 9, 2014 at 7:54 pm

    Amen to that. Sometimes he place them there for a reason, then he remove them when the time is right. If they were meant to stay in your life, then he will let them.

  98. Tara Wilson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:55 pm

    I am going through this with my husband. We have been separated for more than 1 year. He lives in Oklahoma and I am here in California. We have one daughter and he hasn’t tried to call or anything. I am just tired of the drama he is going to change he is going to change and hasn’t yet. I needed this today :). Thanks

    • Thelma Payopanar

      August 9, 2014 at 9:34 pm

      it happened to me just one yr ago,no communication,.not kids its really tiring,,prayer is the powerful answer,,god will make a way promise he will come back and ask an apology fpr you and your daughter

    • Tara Wilson

      August 9, 2014 at 10:32 pm

      Thanks I need to let it go and give him to The Lord and just live to be the best mom I can’t keep focusing on him I have to put him in God hands.

    • Verica Rauza

      August 9, 2014 at 11:27 pm

      but please do not stop praying for him, because even at his death bed it is possible that this kind of person will change and accept Christ, it is never too late while there is still a breath inside of him. God bless you.

    • Tara Wilson

      August 10, 2014 at 12:09 am

      Thank you and yes because I was raised there is a soul in that body and the drugs just have a hold of him and I need to pray :).

    • Lynda Rogers

      August 10, 2014 at 2:27 am

      Me too exactly Tara

  99. Tara Wilson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Kota Myhre read this :)

  100. Lydia Chisuse

    August 9, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    God’s time is de best

  101. Pearl Coleman

    August 9, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Is not that easy when you are in love

  102. Lakisha Weeks

    August 9, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    Amen, God knows who I want…

  103. Nicole Riddick

    August 9, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    Is this not right on time Aja Washington Qiana Nichole Laviena?

  104. Mable Motsumi

    August 9, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    Amen

  105. Jamie Jones K

    August 9, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    Yes

  106. Tami Trevino

    August 9, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    That’s so true…

  107. Sara Nelson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    Amen! On his time!

  108. Ignatia Mkabela

    August 9, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    Amen

  109. Rhonda Prock

    August 9, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    My past is gone my Lord, now I’m ready for my future…Amen…

  110. Marci Mirinda Johnson

    August 9, 2014 at 7:59 pm

    Excellent

  111. Shereen Ali

    August 9, 2014 at 7:59 pm

    amen

  112. Cynthia Fikile

    August 9, 2014 at 7:59 pm

    Its a good thing to let go of some ppl

  113. Doreen Kurauone

    August 9, 2014 at 8:00 pm

    Amen

  114. Ranae Cole

    August 9, 2014 at 8:00 pm

  115. Kate Amissah

    August 9, 2014 at 8:00 pm

    C’est vrai

  116. Dronreck Mazelyn Abad

    August 9, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    Good advice

  117. Noli Ntshoko-makuti

    August 9, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    Lord I blv @ll things r possible

  118. Virginia Young

    August 9, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    Amen!!!

  119. Mnca Brown

    August 9, 2014 at 8:02 pm

    This is a good and true article. Sometimes ee just have let go, pray for one another and move forward. I,too, believe if they are meant to be in our life, God will cause our paths to cross again. God knows who is purposed for our lives.

  120. Tiffany Sanders

    August 9, 2014 at 8:02 pm

    Awesome! And right on time! You can’t make people be what they are not! And I’ve always been the person that wanted to know why! In the long run, it doesn’t really matter, let go and be free from the constant doubts and anxiety.

  121. D Kwasie Guios

    August 9, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    Very true!Amen

  122. Rebecca Smith

    August 9, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    I am kind of going through this with my family. Many times we have helped all members of my family financially and have put out our own family while doing so. My parents, my siblings..and because I have a strong belief in Christ my sibllings push me aside until they “need” something..so letting go as much as possible, until the Lord lays them again.

  123. Jillian Davis

    August 9, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Jaclyn Murphy

  124. Muheirwe Anney

    August 9, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Are you talkin abt i?

  125. Roberta Robinson

    August 9, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Amen hallelujah thank you Jesus.

  126. Kathy Rawlerson

    August 9, 2014 at 8:05 pm

    Amen, Lord I’m listening

  127. Itumeleng Masisi

    August 9, 2014 at 8:05 pm

    Amen

  128. Clarissa Rosario

    August 9, 2014 at 8:05 pm

    This was such a beautiful article! Truly touched me and opened my eyes. God is so good!!

  129. Litia Baleiwai

    August 9, 2014 at 8:06 pm

    Amen

  130. Jacqueline Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 8:06 pm

    I know that’s so true.”If you love someone let them go,if they come back to you they are yours if they don’t then they never was”

  131. Zákerný Človek

    August 9, 2014 at 8:07 pm

    Esta Qing Teo :o

  132. Lerato MissLira Mere

    August 9, 2014 at 8:09 pm

    So true. Amen

  133. Imaniragaba Gloria

    August 9, 2014 at 8:09 pm

    God is great

  134. Jackie Bouknight

    August 9, 2014 at 8:10 pm

    Amen

  135. Denise Stickel

    August 9, 2014 at 8:11 pm

    Amen

  136. Norma Trulyblessed Symons

    August 9, 2014 at 8:12 pm

    Amen

  137. Veronica Jackson

    August 9, 2014 at 8:12 pm

    Amen

  138. Makhota Mathibela

    August 9, 2014 at 8:12 pm

    Amen! Let go of ppl & let God in!

  139. Eva Renteria

    August 9, 2014 at 8:13 pm

    True. AMEN

  140. Chiedza Tinobona Sosono

    August 9, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    Amen

  141. Colleen Paulse

    August 9, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    Amen

  142. Chinka Lungu

    August 9, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    I really needed this, am going thru hell I can’t sleep just praying 2 God may he give me the strength,I jst want to let go.what is it with men God help us.

  143. Nancy Jean

    August 9, 2014 at 8:15 pm

    Totally agree.

  144. Esther Nyirongo

    August 9, 2014 at 8:15 pm

    Amen

  145. Funke Osinlu Fabunmi

    August 9, 2014 at 8:16 pm

    Dats right

  146. Tina Zenda

    August 9, 2014 at 8:16 pm

    Amen

  147. Senwelo Mmagwe Oratile Montlhagane

    August 9, 2014 at 8:17 pm

    Amen

  148. April Woodward

    August 9, 2014 at 8:17 pm

    Who will be at your finish line?

  149. Sharon Rhodes

    August 9, 2014 at 8:18 pm

    This is so powerful, as I read this I’m crying my eyes out. It’s so hard, even when you know it’s for the best. But, I’m still saying why? But I know in my soul, that everything will work out. I just have to stay prayed up, and trust God.

  150. Jay N Jessyka Lujan

    August 9, 2014 at 8:19 pm

    Susie Marie Lozano

  151. Christopher Greene

    August 9, 2014 at 8:20 pm

    Amen

  152. Minnie Howa

    August 9, 2014 at 8:20 pm

    Amen

  153. Emi Sichinga

    August 9, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    Amen.

  154. Thabisile M Dlamini

    August 9, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    so true,thts wat i did

  155. Ugo Ijere

    August 9, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    Yes lord

  156. Pretrevis Ellison

    August 9, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    Amen!!!

  157. Gerry Ciffa

    August 9, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    Amen

  158. Nthabiseng Sibongile Mashiloane

    August 9, 2014 at 8:22 pm

    soo true

  159. Janel NelBoo Frink

    August 9, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    Amen Amen

  160. Miz Wilma

    August 9, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    thats so true! Its a painfuless process but in the end you see you hav been holding to somethig disruptive.

  161. Leenet Tsikirayi

    August 9, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    True …Amen

  162. Fosy Sitali

    August 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    True

  163. Denesha Frazier

    August 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    Amen

  164. Gerry Ciffa

    August 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    God give ,and God takes away ,I lost my beautiful wife ,now I hope and pray that some day ,if is in is will she be back ,thank you Jesus !!

  165. Kim Gambill

    August 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    What if is your spouse? Divorce is not of God.

  166. Treemeda Russell

    August 9, 2014 at 8:25 pm

    So true

  167. Nomvuyo Sibanda

    August 9, 2014 at 8:26 pm

    true

  168. Sophia Lusk

    August 9, 2014 at 8:28 pm

    Gaby Brazell

  169. Loveness Sipinya

    August 9, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    Amen thk u my lord

  170. Clarissa Ramirez Norcross

    August 9, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    Amen!!

  171. Leslie-Ann London

    August 9, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    So true

  172. Kutullo Kaytee Revelation

    August 9, 2014 at 8:31 pm

    I guess we should be quick to read the signs cos thy always thr jst dat we ignore

  173. Hattie Holman

    August 9, 2014 at 8:31 pm

    Very true. When you learn this and accept it…a lot of hurt can be avoided.

  174. Linda Dean

    August 9, 2014 at 8:31 pm

    Amen.

  175. Desire Jaliah

    August 9, 2014 at 8:32 pm

    True

  176. Samke Zama Nontobeko Ntaka

    August 9, 2014 at 8:32 pm

    Powerful indeed!

  177. SisAnn Garner

    August 9, 2014 at 8:33 pm

    Amen

  178. Naguania Buchanan Delaney

    August 9, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    Amen!

  179. Grace Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    Amen

  180. Tasha Wright

    August 9, 2014 at 8:35 pm

    So true

  181. Sarah Mthombeni

    August 9, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    Let it go!!!

  182. Inserta Sowane

    August 9, 2014 at 8:37 pm

    True dat;no matter hw gd of a woman u r u’ll never b gd enuf to a man who isn’t ready.Only God can change a person

  183. Darlene Harrell

    August 9, 2014 at 8:37 pm

    Truth.com

  184. Ruby Michelle Loera

    August 9, 2014 at 8:38 pm

    Coral O’Connor

  185. Marsha Lyles

    August 9, 2014 at 8:38 pm

    A must read, so true.

  186. Ruby Ohlinger-Oxford

    August 9, 2014 at 8:38 pm

    I pray god Will bring the right person for me into my life

  187. Julia Malaza

    August 9, 2014 at 8:39 pm

    So true…

  188. Quelondria Perkins

    August 9, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    Sheila Sukafree Edwards, this is a must read

  189. Gopolang Martino Palai

    August 9, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    painful as it will be but thats true. if they are indeed meant to be in urself they will be.

  190. Andrea Lizama Aguilar

    August 9, 2014 at 8:42 pm

    Aurora Sanchez

  191. Natasha Johnson

    August 9, 2014 at 8:42 pm

    Yes Amen thank u Jesus

  192. Oyenike Oyekan

    August 9, 2014 at 8:44 pm

    Hmmmmm!!!!!

  193. Nomvula Tibo Bhengu

    August 9, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    AMEN!!!!

  194. Eloise Brannon-Greene

    August 9, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Going thru this as we speak I’m going to keep it moving

  195. Mellie Elizondo

    August 9, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Trust Him, He knows what is best for you. Let go and let God.

  196. Donna Kimball

    August 9, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    Some people are only meant to be in your life for a moment. Not a life time. If you are lucky at the end of your life , you will have 3 or 4 who are still there.

  197. Sherro Thorpe

    August 9, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    True!

  198. Deslynn Martin

    August 9, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    Amen

  199. Honey B Love

    August 9, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    Amen

  200. Suzanne Smith Sauls

    August 9, 2014 at 8:48 pm

    Even with blood relatives

  201. Shannon Stafford

    August 9, 2014 at 8:49 pm

    Awesome and true on every arena of life

  202. Chelsea Adonis

    August 9, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    Thts so true let go of people who wanna hold you back they not worth it God will place someone in your life to spend your whole life with in his time the lords always on time.

  203. Marcia Pratt

    August 9, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    This is true

  204. Linda Falke

    August 9, 2014 at 8:52 pm

    Let him go! Let him go!
    Don’t you hold on anymore!
    Let him go! Let him go!
    Turn away and slam the door!

    Sorry! I <3 “Frozen,” and I couldn’t resist.

  205. Mbali Primrose Mposula

    August 9, 2014 at 8:52 pm

    Yes n Amen

  206. Esther Udoh

    August 9, 2014 at 8:53 pm

    Very true

  207. Paulett Fletcher

    August 9, 2014 at 8:53 pm

    So true

  208. Sherrie Harney Giroux

    August 9, 2014 at 8:53 pm

    I am also in this awful situation. It amazes me how God gives me what I need when I need it. It is so hard to end a 24 yr marriage but I know I must. My life and happiness depend on it. God is with me and I will take this one day at a time. I pray and cry constantly but will fight on. The Lord will see me thru, I firmly believe this. Good luck girls hold tight to God. He will not forsake us !!!! Amen

  209. Crissy Hoffert

    August 9, 2014 at 8:55 pm

    I seem to have a lot of these. Amen!

  210. Nngozi Mavis

    August 9, 2014 at 8:57 pm

    Sure

  211. Nompumelelo Muhle Ziqubu

    August 9, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    Amen…God knows best

  212. Christina Carroll

    August 9, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    Amen

  213. J'Vonne Renee Ogles

    August 9, 2014 at 9:00 pm

    Amen!

  214. Nthabiseng Sambo

    August 9, 2014 at 9:01 pm

    Amen

  215. Krystal Self-Laguna

    August 9, 2014 at 9:02 pm

    Abbie Campbell :o

  216. Belinda Richardson

    August 9, 2014 at 9:02 pm

    Amen… this happened to me last night. God is so good

  217. Lynette Camacho

    August 9, 2014 at 9:02 pm

    And when they come back …peps don’t let them go…

  218. Sandra B Johnson

    August 9, 2014 at 9:02 pm

    Going thur this now

  219. Kofoworola Ayeriyina

    August 9, 2014 at 9:03 pm

    Amen n na true my sister

  220. Hugette Lebeau

    August 9, 2014 at 9:06 pm

    I agree even with your family

  221. Mbali Selahle

    August 9, 2014 at 9:06 pm

    amen

  222. Diane Shaw Chevalier

    August 9, 2014 at 9:07 pm

    Ok ladies I need help I left my husband of 13 years because of verbal and emotional abuse with a 10 year old son who needed a break from the arguing. I left our son with him till I could get me figured out. Well after living with mom and friends for 16 months and not finding a job oh yeah I lost my job in the midst of all this. I got back together with him because I missed my son so much, now a year later its brutal a dog gets treated better than me but if I leave again im leaving my son which I can’t bear and i don’t want to leave him with his dad but I don’t have the means to take my son with me. What do I do?

    • Patrine James

      August 9, 2014 at 10:25 pm

      I think you should find the root of the problem and fix that. What exactly is causing you to argue so much?? Think about it. And work on that. Work on you. And vise versa. If you don’t fix the problem you will always be arguing x

  223. Lauren Curtis

    August 9, 2014 at 9:07 pm

    Lauren Quayle

  224. Judy Goff Rogers

    August 9, 2014 at 9:11 pm

    Amen

  225. Ifunanya Adirika

    August 9, 2014 at 9:13 pm

    ….letting go nd trusting God..

  226. Diana Washington

    August 9, 2014 at 9:13 pm

    God will always make a way for you

  227. Marianne Cook

    August 9, 2014 at 9:16 pm

    Wow! That is powerful!

  228. Neresa Becong

    August 9, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    amen..its hard to let go when ur heart says no not yet..but if that is the best for us i will…God is there..

  229. Joanna Spaw

    August 9, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    What if that person is your husband??

  230. Ruby Lombardo

    August 9, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    Amen!!!

  231. Adebola Adesokan-Osisami

    August 9, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    God help me.

  232. Getrude Mphake

    August 9, 2014 at 9:23 pm

    AMEN

  233. Fred Akweteh

    August 9, 2014 at 9:26 pm

    Excellent

  234. Cynthia Jessie

    August 9, 2014 at 9:27 pm

    Amen

  235. Anna Majoko

    August 9, 2014 at 9:29 pm

    Amen

  236. Sylvia Gomez

    August 9, 2014 at 9:30 pm

    Amen that ‘s so true I am struggling to part ways with hi and trying to work out can ….

  237. Andrea C Duran

    August 9, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    Evelyn Caballero

  238. Henrietta Achiamaa

    August 9, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    I have learnt that now

  239. Thando Pooe

    August 9, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    Amen

  240. Nelly Sangweni

    August 9, 2014 at 9:33 pm

    Amen to dat..if it meant 2 b it will come back 2 u

  241. Pretty Siganga

    August 9, 2014 at 9:36 pm

    True that

  242. Ruth Hayes

    August 9, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    Amen so true Let go and let God

  243. Ingrid Carro Hayes

    August 9, 2014 at 9:40 pm

    Amén

  244. Doris Owunnah

    August 9, 2014 at 9:41 pm

    So true

  245. Amber Starr

    August 9, 2014 at 9:42 pm

    Amen.

  246. Estelle Taylor Jacobs

    August 9, 2014 at 9:42 pm

    Yeah as test perhaps ;)

  247. Monica Matwa

    August 9, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    AMEN

  248. Sylv Meks

    August 9, 2014 at 9:45 pm

    Amen

  249. Debra K Reece

    August 9, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    What if it’s your ex bf that you were very much in love with has come back

  250. Noma Gwedashe

    August 9, 2014 at 9:48 pm

    Amen

  251. Linda T Ruiz Goberdhan

    August 9, 2014 at 9:49 pm

    True

  252. Crissy Bankz

    August 9, 2014 at 9:50 pm

    Amen

  253. Pamela Sanders

    August 9, 2014 at 9:54 pm

    True

  254. Suzette Lockett

    August 9, 2014 at 9:56 pm

    That is a very true statement amen let go let God cause he will work it out

  255. Faye Logan

    August 9, 2014 at 9:56 pm

    amen

  256. Karla Franjul

    August 9, 2014 at 9:57 pm

    Read this!! Laura Darley

  257. rex

    August 9, 2014 at 2:58 pm

    Thank you. If you do asked me 18 years ago when I married if I believed this I would have said no. But now I must leave before I go mad. I have postponed this decision twice in 14 years. But I can’t anymore. I’m a different person. I’ll never live my life if I do not leave now. She’s shocked because I just announced I’m leaving. She’s asking why, I’m saying I have been talking for the last 18 years and you haven’t listened. I love her. I love our children.but I can’t live with her anymore. It took me so long to have this courage. Thank you for confirming my decision to move on.bim full of inner peace..

    • Britt

      August 9, 2014 at 10:17 pm

      I believe in marriage and what God has for marriage. I strongly encourage you to seek counseling with your wife. I have been married ten years and my husband decided to do the same thing. I couldn’t imagine being married 18 years and my husband leaving. The emotional stress alone is hard enough and it isn’t God’s best. I am not here to bash you but to encourage you to first seek counsel before you make a life-changing decision. I hope that you and your wife can discover what is causing the marital breakdown and your marriage be restored. I believe it will be stronger!

  258. Leisa Henry-Herrera

    August 9, 2014 at 9:59 pm

    Totally relate to this right now!!

  259. Annette Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 9:59 pm

    Amen

  260. Annette Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 10:00 pm

    Amen

  261. Judy Patton

    August 9, 2014 at 10:06 pm

    Amen

  262. AGodmade Poet

    August 9, 2014 at 10:07 pm

    Omg this is Confirmation…..Let them Go all in Love!

  263. Pamela Gordon

    August 9, 2014 at 10:10 pm

    Amen

  264. Betty Honaker

    August 9, 2014 at 10:13 pm

    Think you

  265. Shannan McRae

    August 9, 2014 at 10:14 pm

    Amen

  266. Latoya Houston

    August 9, 2014 at 10:17 pm

    amen

  267. Lula Lewis

    August 9, 2014 at 10:18 pm

    Amen

  268. Sheila Carter

    August 9, 2014 at 10:20 pm

    So true

  269. Melissa Wright

    August 9, 2014 at 10:21 pm

    Have faith in God he wants to see you happy

  270. Jessica Fudge

    August 9, 2014 at 10:21 pm

    Maci Bazer

  271. Alice Goosby

    August 9, 2014 at 10:26 pm

    True!

  272. Suki Kalyan

    August 9, 2014 at 10:27 pm

    Very true….needed this today

  273. Hazvinei Pamela Madamombe

    August 9, 2014 at 10:30 pm

    Ummm

  274. Imelda Chinyelu Agu

    August 9, 2014 at 10:37 pm

    Dis is really true & practical cos am a witness to dat

  275. Freda Thwala

    August 9, 2014 at 10:40 pm

    Amen

  276. Heather Smothers

    August 9, 2014 at 10:40 pm

    Florine Holmes Downing!! More confirmation for me

  277. Kemely Videau

    August 9, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    Amen

  278. Tori Lewis

    August 9, 2014 at 10:43 pm

    Amen

  279. Kat Sanchez Ferrer

    August 9, 2014 at 10:48 pm

    Iv’z Acosta for us :)

  280. June Hayashida

    August 9, 2014 at 10:52 pm

    Thank u, I need to forgive and work on myself.

    • Yolanda Mimi Ndike

      August 10, 2014 at 6:16 am

      June its hrd 4 me gal 2 forgive i wnt 2 bt its vry hrd thn i endup sayng i wil nvr 4gv

  281. Annaliza Largo

    August 9, 2014 at 10:52 pm

    Amen

  282. Monica Tembo

    August 9, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    Amen

  283. Carlene Stephenson- Boland

    August 9, 2014 at 10:58 pm

    True words…

  284. Joseph Githua

    August 9, 2014 at 11:18 pm

    Sure

  285. Joycesoblessed Prater

    August 9, 2014 at 11:23 pm

    Amen

  286. Carmen Turbessi

    August 9, 2014 at 11:24 pm

    Judy Hannum

  287. Earlean Garcia

    August 9, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    amen its hard to let go.only by depending on the Lord Jesus are we able to

  288. Sonny Ukpong Jr

    August 9, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    So much hurt I’m seeing from women in this post.. Women please do us a favor. Spend some time getting to know our past before you fall in love with us. You fall in love too quickly with us. You give your heart away too soon to us. Many of us are not ready but being Men, we “act” and “try” to carry the load. Don’t fall in love first then try to figure out our past. Many men are damaged but will NEVER show it.This is ruining many relationships and marriages. Society has changed, there is tremendous pressure on relationships nowadays.Never let a man damage you. Fight hard to be the Virtuous women that God wants you to be.You are precious and the right man will recognize and treat you as such. So cry, wipe your tears away and put that smile back on your face. God loves you…

    • Yolanda Mimi Ndike

      August 10, 2014 at 4:37 am

      I hv told myslf dat i wil nvr 4gv n 4get cz of bad thngs dat has hppn 2 me bt i knw god dnt wnt dat i am vry damaged sw

    • Jocilyn Hudson

      August 10, 2014 at 4:56 am

      The fact that some of us are hurt…gives no man an excuse or gage effect to damage us! Try being honest and upfront about what you want from us! That won’t happen bcos men know if they’re brutally honest about wanting NSAs and FWBs the chances of ” scoring” decrease greatly! Then….men could NEvER damage women!

    • Cornelia Elmore

      August 10, 2014 at 5:16 am

      Sonny, simply beautiful! Thank you for hearing God’s heart. The late Dr. Maya Angelou said “when a person shows you WHO they are, believe them”. God’s love.

    • Sophie Mokgethoa

      August 10, 2014 at 7:24 am

      Powerful words my brother, thank you.

    • Ameesha Luckhun

      August 10, 2014 at 8:21 am

      Brother Sonny, so true about that. Great message..God bless you!

  289. Renita Rada Santiago

    August 9, 2014 at 11:40 pm

    so true..

  290. Marites Torillo

    August 9, 2014 at 11:41 pm

    I’m letting him go

  291. Nathalie Nieveld

    August 9, 2014 at 11:42 pm

    Yes

  292. Gladys Mahiti

    August 9, 2014 at 11:43 pm

    Amen

  293. Leaudriea Gussett

    August 9, 2014 at 11:43 pm

    Amen

  294. Lucy Wanjiku

    August 9, 2014 at 11:43 pm

    Exactly!

  295. Suama Tutangeni

    August 9, 2014 at 11:44 pm

    Amen

  296. Nitrisha McLean

    August 9, 2014 at 11:44 pm

    Iyata Fiyah

  297. MmaSamukelo QM Nhlapo

    August 9, 2014 at 11:45 pm

    Powerful and wise words. May God give us His wisdom so that we can learn to let go.

  298. Michelle Williams

    August 9, 2014 at 11:54 pm

    True, true, true!

  299. Aletheia Moore Wilson

    August 9, 2014 at 11:55 pm

    Excellent article

  300. Maria Gladinia Ramirez Dayrit

    August 10, 2014 at 12:02 am

    God knows what is best for us. There’s a reason for everything… I’m going through this stage, It’s really hard but God is always here for us…thank you God for giving me strength to let go and moving on. I praise you my God and I love you,amen

  301. Rosetta Rutter

    August 10, 2014 at 12:04 am

    True,true!

  302. Jessica Viera

    August 10, 2014 at 12:04 am

    Amen

  303. Ella Ladislao

    August 10, 2014 at 12:05 am

    Let him go

  304. Rhulani Lindiwe Hlongwane

    August 10, 2014 at 12:12 am

    Amen

  305. Feliza Guzman Tilap

    August 10, 2014 at 12:15 am

    Yes.keep prayin

  306. Josie Mitchem

    August 10, 2014 at 12:20 am

    Wow if that’s not sending me a message from God then I don’t know what is! Great message so true!

  307. Joselyn Velasco

    August 10, 2014 at 12:21 am

    Amen

  308. Sandra Arenas Nunez Gutierrez

    August 10, 2014 at 12:25 am

    Amèn I am letting go my husband left 11 months ago n n I have been standing so I l surrender him to Hod n let God move those mountains God knows n I will follow the path God has provided for me! God’s will not my will!

  309. Renata Monique Smith

    August 10, 2014 at 12:30 am

    I believe this!#trustinggodsplan

  310. Pricilla Dominguez

    August 10, 2014 at 12:32 am

    Erykah Carr

  311. Monika Pudyastuti

    August 10, 2014 at 12:35 am

    I hope someone getting back in my pathway

  312. Gloriana Kumar

    August 10, 2014 at 12:36 am

    Thank you….

  313. Carolyn Livingston

    August 10, 2014 at 12:38 am

    This is right on time..I love it!

  314. Ruben Manriquez

    August 10, 2014 at 12:39 am

    Tengo mas de 5 anos que dane a mi familia y he podido alejarla de mi Vida y no he podido salir del abujero en el que me meti. Y no he dejado que Dios haga lo que quiere de mi, creo que es tiempo de dejar ir lo hise y empesar a buscar mi camino cerca de Dios. Gracias x tu comentario. God bless you.

  315. Christine Mangaoang Cahilig

    August 10, 2014 at 12:42 am

    Amen

  316. Martha Caine McIntosh

    August 10, 2014 at 1:08 am

    Amen!

  317. Reannie Magno

    August 10, 2014 at 1:09 am

    Joyce Avenue!!!

  318. Tshidi Mogomotsi

    August 10, 2014 at 1:20 am

    Amen

  319. Rosalind Jackson-Stewart

    August 10, 2014 at 1:25 am

    Amen-I love messages that confirm everything I need to believe. I receive this with an open and trusting heart. Let go. Carol Cook -

  320. Joyce Avenue

    August 10, 2014 at 1:26 am

    Lord, please remove this feeling… :(

  321. Kat Rollins

    August 10, 2014 at 1:43 am

    yes as ELSEA sings let it go.after u turn loose it over and done

  322. Analiza Naldo

    August 10, 2014 at 1:43 am

    Very true…let God decide for it…

  323. Gwen Bickers

    August 10, 2014 at 2:08 am

    Amen!

  324. Rachel Antonacci Remy

    August 10, 2014 at 2:16 am

    AMEN

  325. Linda Baxter

    August 10, 2014 at 2:18 am

    amen

  326. Babie Cee Fnz

    August 10, 2014 at 2:20 am

    Amen

  327. Lynda Rogers

    August 10, 2014 at 2:20 am

    So very well said & at just the right time

  328. Trudy Jorgensen

    August 10, 2014 at 2:21 am

    That is perfect

  329. Mokwebo Vhutshilo

    August 10, 2014 at 2:25 am

    Amen

  330. Kia Strange

    August 10, 2014 at 2:30 am

    Thank you jesus! Amen

  331. Ceneal Cee

    August 10, 2014 at 2:32 am

    Amen.

  332. Santa Ramos

    August 10, 2014 at 2:38 am

    It happen to me is like you taking about me.Is so thru!

  333. Santa Ramos

    August 10, 2014 at 2:40 am

    Es cierto trate de mantener una relacion creyendo el hiba a cambiar su alcolismo y numca paso.!

  334. Kathy Jacobs-mcloyd

    August 10, 2014 at 3:02 am

    You are right on Sonny Ukpong!!!

  335. Constance Mogwane

    August 10, 2014 at 3:25 am

    Amen

  336. Barbara Ingram Sexton

    August 10, 2014 at 3:27 am

    Amen please help us

  337. Ann Jelly Valencia

    August 10, 2014 at 3:33 am

    Marian , let’s keep moving forward..

  338. Nomvula Qupe

    August 10, 2014 at 3:34 am

    Yep and Amen

  339. Dominica Marry

    August 10, 2014 at 3:34 am

    So true

  340. Emi Sichinga

    August 10, 2014 at 3:38 am

    Amen.

  341. Angela Draft

    August 10, 2014 at 3:43 am

    Amen !

  342. Alyssa Baylock

    August 10, 2014 at 3:44 am

    This article is right on time… I love how the Lord always finds a way to get His message across to me. Thank you for sharing.

  343. Brittany Wilt

    August 10, 2014 at 3:55 am

    I prayed and here you go Rob Dino Berryhill Jesus sent!

  344. Lita Milan

    August 10, 2014 at 3:55 am

    Mpve pn with Jesus by your side.

  345. Cee Madimbe

    August 10, 2014 at 4:05 am

    True

  346. Fahrah Fawn

    August 10, 2014 at 4:12 am

    Good article…I need that reminder

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  348. Ray Avire

    August 10, 2014 at 4:33 am

    Amen

  349. Khezia Mkhwanazi

    August 10, 2014 at 4:36 am

    Amen

  350. Yvonne Chagaresango

    August 10, 2014 at 4:39 am

    Amen its true

  351. Juliet Muchairi

    August 10, 2014 at 4:45 am

    Amen in jesus name

  352. Noma Sibanda

    August 10, 2014 at 4:49 am

    Amen

  353. Jocilyn Hudson

    August 10, 2014 at 4:51 am

    I have the gift of goodbye down packed!

  354. Heather Pauli

    August 10, 2014 at 4:54 am

    Thank u for this article….. Am trying to get the strength to let go now of someone I love but it is so hard: (

  355. Neii Changsan

    August 10, 2014 at 5:04 am

    Amen

  356. Olivia van der Wath

    August 10, 2014 at 5:17 am

    Amen

  357. Winnie Regino Bilbao

    August 10, 2014 at 5:18 am

    thank you …AMEN AMEN AMEN in JESUS name..

  358. Sherry Raybon Mastin

    August 10, 2014 at 5:34 am

    Me too Heather Pauli

  359. Nokuthula Prudance Tatshu

    August 10, 2014 at 5:35 am

    True

  360. Lindiwe Dube

    August 10, 2014 at 5:37 am

    Amen

  361. Alina Maamogwa

    August 10, 2014 at 5:39 am

    Definitely

  362. Dimpho Winny

    August 10, 2014 at 5:42 am

    Amen

  363. Maricruz Rashidi

    August 10, 2014 at 5:43 am

    Amen having a hard time letting go my love pass 7 months ago and I miss him so much .I cry I pray I think of him.

  364. Leslie C Penn

    August 10, 2014 at 5:43 am

    Ameno

  365. Duduzile Sibanda Ndawana

    August 10, 2014 at 5:46 am

    inspired Lord lead the way i will follow we tend to spend most of our tyme wondering wat we did wrong in order to be hurt deliberatly and forget to surrender our pains and suffering to God he already has an answer

  366. Theresa Dibotelo

    August 10, 2014 at 5:54 am

    Amen

  367. Oyintando Nolundi Kiki Moni

    August 10, 2014 at 5:56 am

    AMEN

  368. Naomi Nerberts

    August 10, 2014 at 5:59 am

    Great

  369. Kusheshe Mkhabela Dinangwe Dlomo

    August 10, 2014 at 6:01 am

    Amen

  370. Mpho G Galeboe

    August 10, 2014 at 6:06 am

    amen 2 tht

  371. Anthony Kelley

    August 10, 2014 at 6:08 am

    Amen

  372. Jacqui Mthiya

    August 10, 2014 at 6:10 am

    It aint easy…bt im tryn very hard

  373. Loriegene Baladad

    August 10, 2014 at 6:15 am

    Amen

  374. Oyintando Nolundi Kiki Moni

    August 10, 2014 at 6:15 am

    AMEN

  375. Julie Ann Tagari

    August 10, 2014 at 6:17 am

    Amen!

  376. Karen Britton-Houston

    August 10, 2014 at 6:31 am

    Amen

  377. Yolanda Mimi Ndike

    August 10, 2014 at 6:42 am

    Its tym 2 be a big gal nw n move on wit my lyf

  378. Samukelisiwe Khumalo

    August 10, 2014 at 6:53 am

    Amen

  379. Zakhewu Yehla

    August 10, 2014 at 6:55 am

    Amen

  380. Milina Dube

    August 10, 2014 at 6:57 am

    True though its not easy

  381. Susan Kang

    August 10, 2014 at 7:00 am

    yes. 100%. timely article

  382. Alpho Sismay

    August 10, 2014 at 7:01 am

    That’s true

  383. June Hayashida

    August 10, 2014 at 7:05 am

    None of its want to give up, but sometimes we give up because in our hearts we know that the certain love isn’t right. Forgiving is a part of healing. I know the man i fell in love with was hurting deep down from past relationships. I gave him time, I’ve cried with him and for him, prayed for him, given him my heart, I’ve been there for him, and yet he doesn’t let his guard down, so I’ve decided to put him in Gods hands, i continue to pray for him, still love him. more than anything i want a solid relationship with him. I forgive him, and love him, but have let him go. And i thank God that he was in my life for the time we had together.

    • Hellen

      August 10, 2014 at 1:02 pm

      I feel you. . I have never stopped crying since I let him go out of my life few days back. . It hurts so much . I had a choice of begging him to stay in my life. But my intuition told me that it was like a broken glass. . I don’t know what went wrong all of a sudden. . But ya life goes on. .

  384. Tshililo Mudzuli

    August 10, 2014 at 7:13 am

    Amen

  385. Cynthia Maphosa

    August 10, 2014 at 7:17 am

    Amen

  386. Mmapula Sepotokele

    August 10, 2014 at 7:19 am

    Amen…

  387. Homsera Rongchaicho Terangpi

    August 10, 2014 at 7:27 am

    Thank God for He bestowed me wisdom to part ways from him years back as his purpose in my life was for a season n thank God we just moved on with our own lives though was hard at that time.If i keep holding on then my present would be a miserable one for he is just not meant for me as per Gods will ……we cant yoke with non believer for a relationship.Remembering him dont hurt anymore but am much happy now waiting for His timing.

  388. Gem Estolas

    August 10, 2014 at 7:44 am

    I had people whom i treasure as good friends in life. I find myself doing the effort to make them feel how much they mean to me only to find out i don’t have any value for them at all. They always ignore me. I don’t wanna give up but it’s been 11 years that i’m holding on and nothing has changed still. I don’t know if i should let go but it feels like it’s the only way i can finally free myself from hurting.

  389. Noma Mapange

    August 10, 2014 at 7:52 am

    Amen

  390. Raphael Chita Cloete

    August 10, 2014 at 7:54 am

    amen

  391. Sandra Malipa

    August 10, 2014 at 8:02 am

    Just what I am going through letting go can be hard but have to do it because its best for me….knowing God has someone better for me.

  392. Lyneve Pillay

    August 10, 2014 at 8:07 am

    Amen

  393. Lina Lou Gitalan

    August 10, 2014 at 8:11 am

    Amen

  394. Lyneve Pillay

    August 10, 2014 at 8:27 am

    Amen

  395. Dann

    August 10, 2014 at 1:54 am

    This doesn’t apply in marriage. God hates divorce. Nothing is beyond God’s power to heal and restore. Never ever let go in marriage.

  396. Zoey Smith

    August 10, 2014 at 8:55 am

    Interesting read

  397. Micheal Lecky

    August 10, 2014 at 9:42 am

    please I need you all to join me in prayers for the Lord to heal me of cancer will also like to make some new Christian friends

  398. AllisWell

    August 10, 2014 at 7:46 am

    Everything you have said is true, after I end up my 8 years of relationship I never expected how it feels so right. At first it feels like its the end of my life months after along side with deep prayer that He will heal the pain I am fine now. Totally renewed me. .

  399. Ligia Ashook

    August 10, 2014 at 8:56 am

    Thank you for helping women who need to know that even if it hurts letting go a person or something that we get attached and is not good, God always lift us up and take us to a much better person or situation. God bless us all.

  400. Hellen

    August 10, 2014 at 12:55 pm

    Thanks. . The article is an eye opener. . I’m fresh from a broken relationship. . I’m hurting so much. . But it make sense. .

  401. maree

    August 11, 2014 at 1:33 pm

    Amen, just realized that my 12 year marriage is over – it never really began, it’s all not real our vows and my life of hardship has mean’t nothing!!. My husband has just strung me along for financial/sexual purposes. It’s all been a farce. He doesn’t care about me/ not about anything apart from my skills of holding down a job. All the time whilst he holds a position in church acting/pretending whilst not leading a christian life – and as I’ve just found out/realised that he is/was happier when I was in a backsliden and lost state. And has been unconsciously/conscoiusly doing whatever he can to keep me unsettled and out of a relationship and the will of God.

  402. jhanate

    August 11, 2014 at 9:51 pm

    It was 4years ago when there is someone who showed me love,feel that im so important to his life but behind of this im not the only one to his life..there so many times id tried to let go my feelings of him but until now deep inside of my heart all the memories that i had with him is still here. I dont know why?now that even if we dont have any communication im still hoping that one day will cross our path again..while im reading this..i been realized that its better to save your heart to someone you knew at the end could never be yours..and its better to love from a distance instead of forcing yourself to be love even if it will not possible to happen.its better to love from a far just to save your heart from the aches that will be cause of losing yourself..and maybe you might be hurt some else for choosing that someone even if he already taken to some else.

  403. Denise

    August 25, 2014 at 8:09 pm

    I was reading this article and I couldn’t denied my eyes start crying, I truly believe in god and i been trying to get some answerand find the way to letting go the man who show me the way of faith and love during 5 years, I still loving him but i understand our season ends… and its time to let him go away of my life. .

  404. dee

    August 26, 2014 at 2:00 am

    Thank you needed this article..

  405. El

    August 26, 2014 at 2:24 am

    this sounds just like me lol

  406. BrokenHearted

    August 26, 2014 at 3:33 am

    What happens if that person is my husband?

    • faylin

      August 26, 2014 at 4:16 am

      My person to let go was my exhusband. I was with him 18 years. So, you can only imagine my pain as this was my best friend “I thought” as if he was, he would still be in my life as my “husband”.I still love him. But I love him at a distance and with a different love now. We still communicate as we have two young adult children together, but I am into my 3rd year of not being with him. I am just starting to accept that I need let it go cause the pain is much to great to keep holding on to what “I think I want/need” with him. If God want us to be back together it will happen. If we are not meant to be back together, I am okay with that now. It took me sometime to get to this mind set as I too was truly brokenhearted. But, there is hope sweety! Trust God and put your focus on him and ask him to give you other positive things to occupy your mind. He will but don’t give up hope!

      • BrokenHearted

        August 26, 2014 at 4:36 am

        Thank you Faylin, I know that God hates divorce so I have been so reluctant to let go but I have to believe that God’s grace will cover me when I go and that God will understand that it’s not right to stay in such an emotional abusive and destructive relationship. Please pray for me that God will open a door for me.

  407. De Hoedt

    August 28, 2014 at 8:22 am

    I think yu might be reading a different bible. Please do not lie and confuse people. God is verry clear about the intuition of marriage. i’m pretty sure this is not the will of GOD.

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