I remember being in the bookstore a few years ago as I was looking for another book on how to breakthrough my singleness journey of dead end relationship after dead end relationship.
It was at that moment when I saw a book with this title “If You Want Closure, Start With Your Legs” that title cut me like the Word, it felt sharper than a two-edge sword.
I had been dating this guy from my college. He was different from the guys I had dated in the past (or so I thought).
Although the packaging was different, the elements of the relationship remain the same.
The straw that broke the camel’s back was when I saw douche under his bathroom cabinet and he said it belonged to his sisters.
Then he told me to stop asking about it because even if he cheated I would stay. I knew at that point, this had gone too far and he had absolutely no respect for me.
It was at this point that I realized that I did not have any respect for myself neither I had no idea how, but I knew something had to give.
There were 3 critical things that freed me from these types of relationships…