It is so often easy to get caught up in the world’s way of doing things, especially when it comes to love relationships but a Christian single man who has the right intentions will not be attracted by worldly tactics.
Often people respond to this by saying that God isn’t interested in our love relationships and this is too small to bother God with but it most definitely is not too small for God.
The world attracts men using physical attraction and the result will almost certainly be a physical relationship.
How you present yourself will greatly determine the type of guy you will attract into relationships and if you are looking for a faithful and Christian relationship, it is important to make sure you are not using worldly tactics to attract a Godly man.
7 Things You Must Do If You Want To Attract Godly Relationships :
1. Present yourself well
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised. – Proverbs 31:30
When relationships are built on superficial things such as your looks, your beautiful face, or your curves, what keeps him there once those things begin to fade away? Nothing. But when he is attracted to the Godliness in you, you have a solid foundation to build a Godly relationship.
First impressions really do count and how you present yourself will speak volumes about your personality and the type of lady you are.
Modesty is key. Don’t go overboard trying to get a man to notice you. Because if he’s meant to be your Godly man, he will notice with little or no effort on your part.
2. Be confident and secure
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. – Proverbs 31:10
Confidence in a woman who knows what she is worth and that she is valuable will automatically make her more attractive. Show inwardly and outwardly that you won’t just settle for anything or anyone.
Learn to love yourself for who you are and how you look, how you carry yourself and that will shine through in your personality. This doesn’t mean you need to be full of yourself – just more sure of yourself.
3. Be Friendly and positive
It’s better to be friendly and to have a smile ready at all times. No one wants to approach someone who looks miserable. That will scare any guy away because you are not showing that you are open to smiling, never mind a conversation.
If you cultivate a reputation for being a caring and kind person that is easy to talk to, you will be able to strike up friendships and relationships easily.
4. Be respectful to everyone
If you are respectful and honor all those around you, it will reveal much about your character and personality and if this is who you really are you will be able to attract and keep this type of man in your life.
A Christian man looking for a potential partner will want to learn to see what the lady he is interested in is like, what her reputation is and how she treats others before engaging in a relationship with her.
If the lady in question is rude and has no respect for others, he may think that she will treat him in the same way. More importantly, being rude and disrespectful to others may send a message to him that you are not the loving, Godly woman he is looking for.
5. Love God
And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. – Matthew 22:37
Something that will attract a true man of God, is your true relationship with God. A Christian man will admire a lady who loves God, is spirit-filled and isn’t afraid to get lost in worship and be free in the presence of God.
You don’t need to feel as though you may be making a fool of yourself when you outwardly express the love you have for your King, but can be assured that by expressing this feeling outwardly, you are first of all, doing something that is natural and loved by God, and any Christian man who is made aware of your complete love of God will see the beauty of your relationship with God as well.
6. Serve willingly
Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God. – Hebrews 13:16
While you may not feel your little job is important by being a member of the worship team or making tea or coffee after the service, it is. Only people who are willing to take responsibility for others and who truly love the church volunteer for these jobs.
In large congregations, you may never meet all the people in your church but by serving, you are creating an opportunity to meet more members of the congregation and allowing them the opportunity to meet you as well.
The way in which you serve will also be of merit – if you grumble about how much mess there is to clean up etc. people will wonder why you are even bothering but if you serve out of love and wanting to help build God’s kingdom, you will show yourself to be genuine and will find it easier to build relationships with those around you who are serving in His kingdom for the same purpose.
All the good things can easily be added to you by God when you put yourself in a position for Him to lead you to a Godly relationship .
7. Be who you want people to believe you are
“Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.” – Matthew 6:1
A man of God will be able to recognize a true woman of God. If you’re practicing good deeds and faking the faith only when people are watching, at some point you’re going to slip up and expose the real you. A real man of God will be watching you to see if you are the Godly woman you claim to be.
So be the Godly person you want to attract.
Live in such a way that if someone spoke badly about you, no one would believe them!
Remember in all this, put God first, put yourself second and your potential partner will come along at the right time and in the right place and you will find yourself connecting with a true man of God who is attracted to you for you and not for how you dress and what he may get out of it.