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5 Pieces of Dating Advice That Are Actually Helpful

I’ve had the privilege of being mentored by a marriage and family therapist for the past fourteen years. Mentoring is a huge understatement and is probably only a euphemism he uses to soften the fact that I’ve actually been receiving free therapy all this time!...

8 Ways to Know You’re in a Healthy Relationship

As anyone who has navigated the world of dating well knows, romantic relationships can create some of our greatest happiness and some of our deepest heartache. They make us think, stress us out and bless us abundantly. Most of us desire to end up as...

What If Your Boaz is Waiting on You?

One day, I was reading a few articles and I saw the words "What if he (Boaz) is waiting on you?". That stopped me in my tracks. What if a guy was truly waiting for me? What if a guy was praying that I...

Dear God, Where Is My Husband?

Let's get straight to the point: I WANT TO GET MARRIED!   Yes, I said it, and it’s not a secret. I was that girl who grew up under an awesome example of a Godly marriage; My parents. The point is I've always wanted to get married.   Here is...

When We Ignore The Warning Signs

A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences. (Proverbs 22:3) As a survivor of domestic abuse, people often wonder why I (or other victims) stay in abusive relationships. All I can tell you, is there are...

Identifying The Signs of Abuse in Relationships

If you're wondering "what are the signs of abuse?"... just know that they become everything you want them to be, but nothing they truly are.

Before You Buy Another Book on Singlehood…

While surfing Facebook, I ran into several advertisements for books/ebooks that promise to help single women find a man in the church, or giving advice if you are in the church, still single and can't find the elusive "Boaz". I JUST accepted that God heard...

When A Man Is Not Ready…

When a woman gets to the stage where marriage seems to be the single most important thing in the universe, the doors of temptation fling wide open. Patience, grace, and feminine mystique are put to the ultimate test. But sisters, here’s one thing to...

6 Ways to Keep God at the Center of Your Relationship

When my now-husband and I were in the beginning stages of dating, we made great decisions and unfortunate mistakes that have helped us to be where we are now. I’m always up for an opportunity to share a window into that timeline to explain what worked...

The “Perfect” Man

I recently watched 'The Perfect Man', and realized that I used to be just like Sanaa Lathan's character. At one point it seemed like I constantly dwelled on settling down and getting married. I analyzed most men that crossed my path as potential partners,  I had a checklist in...