1. Recognize and understand what is happening to you.
That discomfort with your current life, that stirring in your heart and that guilty feeling that just seems to be haunting you is the Holy Spirit convicting you and trying to get you to repent.
That is part of the role that He plays. God does not wish for anyone to perish but that ALL should come to repentance .
The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance. – 2 Peter 3:9
Listen to that ‘small voice’ that is saying to you that your lifestyle is not pleasing to God and that it is time to come back to your first love.