5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

5. He said it:

He actually told you that “you’re not the one,” but you just refuse to accept it because you’re convinced, he just can’t see it yet. 

You think he’s afraid of his feelings.  You think he’s afraid of falling in love with you this fast. 

False, false, false!  The truth hurts but regret hurts a lot more and lingers a lot longer. 

The fact is, men are pretty simple.  They see what they want and take steps to acquire it.  It’s the reason why it’s so easy for them to walk into an electronics store and buy a TV without much hesitation. 

They don’t have to sit and ponder about how it’ll look in the living room next to the red couch; or if it will compliment the crystal vase.  No, if they like it, they buy it. 

Stop hanging onto the hope that things will change.  Listen to his words, pay attention to his actions, accept that he’s not ready and move on!  Your heart will thank you for it.

A woman’s worst nightmare is to feel unloved and unwanted but God’s greatest blessing is unconditional love.  Don’t ever stay where you are not loved and don’t ever be afraid to leave the place where love is not being returned. 

When we are patient, God will bring that kind of love into our lives.  Until then, continue to guard your heart and use discernment.  In sharing this list, I hope to inspire confidence and patience as you wait for God to bring along the right one.

Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Written by Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Erika Glenn was a blogger in Houston, TX. She enjoyed blogging about topics relevant to singles and young women such as dating, love, and relationships. - R.I.P Erika! ( 3/3/82 - 3/25/19 )

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so sorry about what you went through Chrystine! I pray God continues to give you strength to go through it all.
So you mentioned that God told you not to marry him but you didn’t listen. My question is, how do you know when God is telling you something about a potential husband?


Really helpful article. I think the same applies to guys too.