Hello, I need serious prayer. My brother and my husband got into a huge fight. My brother scolded my daughter and my husband had a fit. My brother and I have always had the kind of relationship where we treat each other’s kids like we would treat our own. So I didn’t think anything of it. I told my husband that he was making it more of a big deal than it was. Why did I do that? He accused me of having my brother’s back over his. This weekend most of my family got together at my parent’s home to celebrate my aunt’s birthday. My husband didn’t want to go. He said now he feels uncomfortable around my family. I was going to go alone but my 5 year old daughter wasn’t feeling well. Next thing I know.. my whole family started calling me telling me what a horrible sister, daughter, niece, etc I am because I didn’t show up for the family gathering. I started crying, and my husband ended up getting into an even bigger fight with my family. Now my family hates me. I feel like I have to choose sides. What can I do to make this situation right? I don’t want to lose my family. I don’t want to lose my husband but right is right and wrong is wrong and sometimes my husband doesn’t want to hear when he’s wrong. I’m lost without my family. We are sooo close and we have never been through nothing like this. Please lord mend my broken heart and send my family back to me.
What are your thoughts? Any advice for this young lady?