Are there times when we you have let past hurts and failures interfere with who you really are and causes you to take on a different role? If there was any invalidation thrown at you in the form of ‘you’re not doing it right’ or ‘you’re wrong’ or ‘you’re not good enough’ it makes sense that you would try to be somebody else. When you identify with invalidation and accept it as truth you may spend a good deal of time and effort trying to fix it by becoming someone you are not and never were meant to be. Others…
Browsing: the past
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3) It crashed to the floor, breaking into an explosion of pieces. Beyond repair. My favorite mug, now being swept into the trash. Broken things are common in my household. If certain broken pieces are able to be fixed, they normally find a temporary home on the shelf, awaiting the super glue repairs. Or maybe just tossed away if unable to be neatly pieced back together and strategically repaired without hint of a patchwork of super glue lines. Often, it takes too much work to fix what is broken. It’s easier…
They say in order for you to move on, you need not look back because that is not where you are going. You must look ahead in order to move forward. The past is over and there is no reason for you to look back. Those are all true. But, visiting the past every now and then doesn’t mean you have to live there. Looking back is not all that bad. Remembering the past has it’s benefits. It might sound crazy, but Looking Back Can Actually Help You Move Forward! Here’s 7 Reasons Why Looking Back Can Actually Help You: (1) When you…
