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When things go wrong, what do you tell yourself?  Do you beat yourself up with the could-have-beens?  Do you berate yourself?  Do you call yourself names—stupid, useless waste of space, good for nothing, loser? Where did you get those ideas?  Most probably from the people close to you and grew up with.  Your parents, your siblings, your teachers, or your classmates.   Growing up, we heard people call us names, laughed at our mistakes and judged us from the failures we made. We have these accusations and condemnations tattooed on our minds and when we enter the “real life”, we bring these…

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