Only listen to Godly counsel.
The second thing you must do if you are trying to break free from a toxic relationship is:
When you are dealing with very stressful situations, it is your first inclination to seek the opinion of friends and family. There is nothing wrong with that if they are giving you Godly counsel.
But if they are just telling you what they personally think and feel, you are going to remain bound.
Friends and family mean well most of the time. Because we often want to please them and not upset them, we follow their advice even when God is speaking something totally different.