5 Ways to Know It’s Time to Let Him Go

He’s Selfish and Self-seeking

Do his needs come before yours? Or does he put you first before himself? I remember one of the relationships I had was with a guy who only cared about himself and his self-image.

Over time I found out, that he was using me to boost his ego. I soon realized that how he saw himself was more important than how he saw me, and so I had to let him go.

If your guy seeks only to please himself and his self-image, not thinking of you or others around him; and if he puts himself and his needs first, then it’s probably time to let him go.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)

Alicia Mckenzie

Written by Alicia Mckenzie

Alicia Mckenzie is a writer and speaker seeking to encourage women in embracing their calling to live in their purpose for Christ.

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Wow, am a daughter of a king and shouldn’t be treated otherwise

So mamy women want to be first, or the only. They really don’t understand that a man’s relationship with God is foundational to his relationship with her. I was taught by Rev. Dr. Jeremiah A. Wright, Jr., that “unless a man loves God, he cannot love you right.” God teaches a man how to love a woman. So, let him love God & choose God over you. If you want God’s best for you, THIS kind of man is it!!!!

Yeah well where are they?? The men I see on FIRE for GOD are already married ?

You have to ATTRACT HIM! You can’t gp LOOKING FOR HIM! Ask God for Him. God knows where he is–the one GOD has created especially for YOU! Be richly blessed!

Xalee Tan

Needed this sis. Thank you

Sue Morris

An excellent article detailing very basic and insightful examples. It was readable, down to earth, and noting true experiences of the writer. However, at times the word “he” was capitalized when referring to the one you should let go. At other times the word “he” was capitalized to refer to God. Also, more than frequently, the author used the semicolon when she should have used a comma. The reading did not flow since I had to reread the phrase to get the meaning she intended the sentence to have. Every person of datable age needs to read and keep in… Read more »

Amen..that’s a plus..

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I wish GOD had someone for me boo

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Hmmmm

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Thanks dear, here i come running.. confirmed

So true.. I’ve been there kinda…but thank God for His Grace upon me..

Not that he chooses God over you but that he gives God his rightful position which is GOD ..

Love the Lord your God is first and love thy neighbour as thyself …

God help me

Brooke Wheeler

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That’s very true. A man of God once said he wouldn’t mind sowing anything as a seed to God even his wife, this shows an insur llllllmllollpmm.mml.mll

Absolutely .