Hi ladies. I have a big dilemma but before I expose myself let me say… Please do not judge me. I really need prayers not judgement. If you’re going to leave a negative comment, please don’t comment at all. I have been married for 2 years to my husband. He’s a great man. No complaints at all. But lately I have been having a feeling that he’s living a double life. As much as it hurts me to admit it I think my husband is gay! It all started from a conversation I was having with him about some of the church sex scandals here lately which are becoming too frequent. His reaction was a little strange. He didn’t really want to talk about it. He didn’t say so, but he just would not voice an opinion one way or another and believe me that’s odd coming from my husband. After that, I started noticing little things, like he’ll leave the room just to talk to his guy friends. I know they’re guys because I see the caller ID when it rings. One day I surprised him at his job to take him to lunch and guess what? His friend was there. My husband told me that they were getting ready to go to lunch and that I should have called first. He didn’t even invite me to tag along. I invited myself but even then I felt like weird like I was the other woman, not the wife. I know I sound crazy, but I’m willing to bet my life that there’s more going on than just friendship with these guys. The scary part about all this is I don’t think I will be able to deal with it if it turns out to be true. The thought of my husband sleeping with another man is something I just will not EVER get used to. I haven’t asked him straight out mainly because I don’t want to know the answer. I feel like I do know the answer already but hearing it will just kill me. Nothing good will come out of this situation but please pray for me. I don’t even sleep at night anymore. My gut is telling me what I need to know, but should I end my marriage based on a gut feeling?
What are your thoughts? Any advice for this young lady?