When God Refuses to Open a Door


Mid-last year, I was helping a friend secure a job at my workplace.

Knowing fully well how diligent and hardworking she is about getting things done in a timely and effective fashion, I knew she would be the right fit for the position.

We both tried every possible means to follow up on her application but all we could get in response was… “We will get back to you or call back later today or tomorrow”

Being an insider, I was fully aware that my company was in need of 20 or more candidates to fill in vacant positions as soon as possible. So I just couldn’t figure out what exactly was going wrong.

It was even advertised internally that we employees should refer those we knew that would be right fits for these positions. 

Every other person who went through my referral got hired, but hers was pending for no apparent reason. 

I mean, she had the right qualifications and has previously worked in a similar company as mine, which means she actually has something to bring to the table.

That’s what every company is looking for right? But why was her case different though?

As days became weeks, training finally commenced and applications were no longer being accepted.

Poor Chi! Her hunt for job continued. My hopes were high that she would get the job but little did we fathom that God had a much better plan in store for her.

Few months thereafter, I received a text from Chi saying that she’s been hired as one of the Managers at Hudson Bay Company. Wow! Goodness Gracious!!  How? When? Where?

I couldn’t believe it. I was excited but shocked at the same time. But…. she doesn’t have any managerial experience, I thought to myself.

When God Refuses to Open a Door…

There and then, it beckoned on me that the reason why God refused to open that door was because He was reserving a much better door of opportunity for her. 

This humbled my spirit and made me reflect about life and the way things are perceived in today’s world.

Most times, the things we think that we can humanly achieve just because we have the right qualifications and resources in place are not always good fits for us.

But God…

He has a way of showing us that ONLY He can give us the things we don’t always qualify for or we don’t deserve. All we have to do is believe and have absolute faith and trust in Him.

Now, neither of us saw this coming and when I asked her how she’d manage to get hired?

She said… even though she knew she wasn’t qualified for this job, she went ahead and applied anyway. She trusted God that something positive was going to happen in return.

This incident made me reflect on Romans 12:3 which says:

“For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.”

Have you found yourself with the echo of closed doors – “no’s” and “not yet’s” or “come back later!”?

Some echo of those slamming doors might still be ringing in your ears till this day. I urge you to embrace it and take it as an opportunity. Something better is on its way which God is preparing you for.

Are you ready?

Render it to Him in prayer. Our Father knows our hopes and dreams and His thoughts towards us are good and not of evil.

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Worried and Concerned

I have been in the same position as Chi! The worse part of it is that I am in an emotionally destructive marriage, as identified by our church’s Christian Counseling Center. We went through 2 years of counseling and its only gotten worse. If I get the full-time permanent spot i know I can get out of this horrible and abusive marriage. There have even been threats of violence. The Lord HAS told me he has something better for me and it is a beautiful and high reaching thing…but its a climb! I don’t know that in this abusive marriage… Read more »

I am praying for you, I’m not sure if you’ll ever see this but know you aren’t alone and let go of the abuse in a weird way… I left my husband after two months of being married bc it got physical and just plain out insane. I am still married bc it’s kept in the courts, God showed me that He wanted to work on me letting it go so that He could give me the best He had… a daughter later and 3-4 years almost still no divorce but more at peace with Gods lesson. I didn’t listen… Read more »


I’ve been waiting for a while already and I feel like something big is coming ahead. I hope its something good.




Thanks very much. Very inspirational and insightful.
God help us to trust in You in the nos and maybes.

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