4. Tell me about your goals
Regardless of age, every man and woman should have at least one goal they’re actively working toward.
Even if it’s as small as saving up $500 over the next 6 months to go on a trip, he or she should have something that’s driving them to be better or do better in life. They should have something that motivates and ignites them like a spark!
Goals keep us fluid and ensure that we continue to transform into a better version of ourselves. If a person has no goals, it’s a sign that they lack vision and the ability to plan for the future.
A person with a goal(s) should be able to fully articulate their aspirations with specificity when asked. Therefore, if you get a vague answer like “I’m working on a few things” or “I’m more of day-by-day kind of person,” it’s either a lie or they aren’t that serious about it.
Remember, scripture says “where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18). If he doesn’t have goals, he has no vision and that relationship is going to perish!