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4. Tell me about your goals

Regardless of age, every man and woman should have at least one goal they’re actively working toward. 

Even if it’s as small as saving up $500 over the next 6 months to go on a trip, he or she should have something that’s driving them to be better or do better in life.  They should have something that motivates and ignites them like a spark! 

Goals keep us fluid and ensure that we continue to transform into a better version of ourselves.  If a person has no goals, it’s a sign that they lack vision and the ability to plan for the future. 

A person with a goal(s) should be able to fully articulate their aspirations with specificity when asked.  Therefore, if you get a vague answer like “I’m working on a few things” or “I’m more of day-by-day kind of person,” it’s either a lie or they aren’t that serious about it. 

Remember, scripture says “where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18).  If he doesn’t have goals, he has no vision and that relationship is going to perish!

Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Written by Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Erika Glenn was a blogger in Houston, TX. She enjoyed blogging about topics relevant to singles and young women such as dating, love, and relationships. - R.I.P Erika! ( 3/3/82 - 3/25/19 )

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It depend who’s u with because if either one of u not caring god with at all times our can he be in the centered

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