I have a prayer request. My husband and I have been married for a little over 8 years. We met in church while my church was visiting his church. One of the things that attracted me to him was that he was a God fearing man. In fact, I loved everything about him. He was truly my dream man. Lately I have been noticing that he is no longer the God fearing man he used to be. Our family goes to church every Sunday , Bible Study on Wednesday, and Choir Rehearsal on Tuesdays, our kids are on the praise dance team, so you get that we are pretty active in the church. The problem is, once we leave church my husband goes back to his worldly ways. I feel like we have become exactly what I vowed I would work so hard not to be ( a lukewarm Christian).
I’ve tried to have a conversation with him on a few occasions, but it never ends well. He says that I think I’m perfect and better than everyone else and accuses me of being judgmental. I pray to God every night that He will change my husband’s heart. This is not the person I married. I’m losing respect for my husband day by day. We don’t read the bible together anymore, we don’t pray together anymore and I just feel like God is not the center of our marriage anymore. My fear is because of this, Our marriage will start to fall apart. Am I being too hard on my husband? What can I do to save my marriage?