I have been dating this guy for about a year and we both know its wrong because legally I’m still married but separated. I truly care and love this man. My kids really like him. They think he’s sweet. We pray together and he is very involved in church and different ministries. He actually in theology school. He is a good guy but I notice that through the storms of my life, when I most need him he is not there. I have a daughter that has an illness and through one of her attacks she was kept in the hospital. I really needed someone because I was going through it and of all people he wasn’t there. He says “I’m sorry but I have a paper I have to do for class” and left me hurting ,no type of comfort. The second time financially I needed help. He knew what was going on and says “I’m sorry I can’t be there for you and the kids”. I mean no “I’ll see what I can do” or nothing. I think I know the answer, but I care for him. He says he love me, but I say he don’t. I hate to feel as if I’m judging someone based on what they can do for me. Keep me in prayer. Should I just let it go?
What are your thoughts? Any advice for this young lady?