1. Stop trying to fix it on your own.
It’s guaranteed that you’ll make an even bigger mess.
The more you take matters into your own hands (and you will be tempted to), the further you are pulling away from God.
You may end up doing or saying something that you will regret; something that may cause your Christianity to be called into question; something that may bring reproach to your name and worse to the name of Christ.
Remember that the world is looking on and is waiting to see how you deal with this situation. After the storm, your testimony should still remain intact and God’s name must still be glorified.
Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. – John 15:4