5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

2. You haven’t met his closest friends and/or they don’t know about you:

I once heard a guy say “I would never date anyone in private that I couldn’t date in public.”

Guys are a lot like women.  When they’re excited about a girl, they act just like women.  They tell their closest friends and they introduce the woman to their closest friends to gauge their thoughts and opinions.  

If you’ve been dating for at least six months and you haven’t met his closest friends, now would be a great time to start asking some questions. 

Are you a secret? 

Is he unsure about the direction of the relationship? 

Again, guard your heart and confront the gray areas of the relationship.  You are too precious, too beautiful and too wonderful to be someone’s secret on the side.

Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Written by Erika Glenn (R.I.P.)

Erika Glenn was a blogger in Houston, TX. She enjoyed blogging about topics relevant to singles and young women such as dating, love, and relationships. - R.I.P Erika! ( 3/3/82 - 3/25/19 )

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so sorry about what you went through Chrystine! I pray God continues to give you strength to go through it all.
So you mentioned that God told you not to marry him but you didn’t listen. My question is, how do you know when God is telling you something about a potential husband?


Really helpful article. I think the same applies to guys too.