5 Signs You Are Chasing Him

2. Desperation Equals Depletion

Are you constantly the one calling him? Initiating contact?  Setting up dates and texting? This does not give a guy the space and time to come to you and therefore, how will you know that he’s really interested in you?

If you spend all your energy on trying to get him to like you, sending him unnecessary messages, or asking him ‘’Where are we in the relationship?’’, then you’re the one pulling all the strings, trying to make something happen.

When you do this, it is easy to give off the desperate vibe and feel depleted, drained and discouraged. And having put all your energy into something that is a way one way street depletes it.

What should you do?

Give it over to God and let Him be the one to take control. He knows the desires of your heart and you can trust Him with those desires. Always be friendly of course, but there is a difference between friendliness and desperation.

Are you desperate for a relationship a guy or with Christ?

Leave it to Jesus and let the right guy find you, and when I write ‘find you’ I mean let him find your heart.

He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD’’ Proverbs 18:22

Alicia Mckenzie

Written by Alicia Mckenzie

Alicia Mckenzie is a writer and speaker seeking to encourage women in embracing their calling to live in their purpose for Christ.

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Basaha Hanna Sybil Badayos Abueva 🙂

Chase God only. Run 2 him not man.

Christien Rougeau

Psych!!!!

never chase anyone!

Abby Mullin this is a good read☺❤

Denielle Wittrowski

Timely..

Derek Rosen

Still in love with someone my self. He broke it off 9 months ago

Sorry Rebecca!

Yes DeNora. He lives less than one mile away. I am never going to be over him. Just have to go on the best that I can?

So sorry my story has now turned into a 30 marrige!

I am happy for you. Believe it or not I am holding onto hope. But right now his Mommy is in the way!

So sorry to hear that Rebecca.

You need to tell Mommy that its time to step back Rebecca!

Try to keep your faith that he will realize where and who he needs to be with Rebecca?

That is exactly what I am doing Lisa. God bless you ?

Yes I am going keep praying about this.

Maybe I will have a happy ending to this.

Calahna Camille

It’s not being forced cuz I have a ring

Lol…….. mind your business

Sandy Fore this is what its about.

That i can’t force one

I know its hard to wrap your brain around this now but do you remember the night you introduced me to Bobby and we just hit it off from the start and started I guess they call it today “going out” but we didnt go out really you and I would go to his and Junior Jones place and hang out every single night for about 3 months….I was head over heels in love with him and then he just broke it off and broke my heart, I wouldn’t give up but he continued to turn me away, giving me… Read more »

Yes I sure do remember this.. And it is funny now that it has all turned around.. Him chasing you.. I’m so happy that the 2 of you finally found each other.. And true love.. Be blessed that he still loves you the way he does.. Just knowing that the 2 of you made it through all the good and the bad.. Back in our days, all the boys thought that was funny to treat all the girls bad, and break our heart’s.. Now whom is chasing who now.. lol

Yep when he did decide about 6 months after breaking my heart that he wanted to be in a relationship I wasnt so sure then I was having to much fun! I even remember Junior telling him the second go around that if he broke my heart again he would n’t ever get another chance lol funny how we remember stuff like that! Junior was right too!

Yep when he did decide about 6 months after breaking my heart that he wanted to be in a relationship I wasnt so sure then I was having to much fun! I even remember Junior telling him the second go around that if he broke my heart again he would n’t ever get another chance lol funny how we remember stuff like that! Junior was right too!

Im still making him chase me Gayla Jones Mayhall haha

Im still making him chase me Gayla Jones Mayhall haha

LisaJane Gant Burroughs that’s what’s keep the fire going!!

Thats right! It all worked out the way it was supposed to because you know he really had a great life from the start, when he married me my family is the same way yours is we are close knit….and my family loves him as much as they do me

Thats right! It all worked out the way it was supposed to because you know he really had a great life from the start, when he married me my family is the same way yours is we are close knit….and my family loves him as much as they do me

I meant to say he really DIDNT have a great life.

I would say I defenetley chased him Now he does all the chasing!! And calling, and calling , calling whenever I am not right by his side. My friends have always been like really??? We are just having lunch and he has called like 5 times!! Lol

That sounds more like stalking than love. Be careful girl.

Melissa Monroe

Hmmmmmm

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