5 Ways to Know It’s Time to Let Him Go

There’s Verbal and/or Physical Abuse

From experience, I can say that the way a man treats you in a relationship will be the way he treats you in a marriage.

Therefore, it is important to get to know someone over time.

Are the words he uses kind? Does he value you in the way he speaks to you, encouraging you?

Sometimes, verbal abuse is so hidden that we don’t even realize when it is happening to us. If a man is not lifting you up and encouraging you in Christ, if he is only telling you ‘what is wrong with you’; trust me it will continue later down the road and you need to let him go. If he is not kind in his words, he will not be kind to you.

Though I have never endured physical abuse, if your man has touched you, committing any form of physical abuse, that is a serious offense and you should get help and contact your local National Domestic Violence Hotline. You are a daughter of the King and should not be treated otherwise.

“Let all that you do be done with love.” (1 Corinthians 16:14)

Alicia Mckenzie

Written by Alicia Mckenzie

Alicia Mckenzie is a writer and speaker seeking to encourage women in embracing their calling to live in their purpose for Christ.

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Wow, am a daughter of a king and shouldn’t be treated otherwise

So mamy women want to be first, or the only. They really don’t understand that a man’s relationship with God is foundational to his relationship with her. I was taught by Rev. Dr. Jeremiah A. Wright, Jr., that “unless a man loves God, he cannot love you right.” God teaches a man how to love a woman. So, let him love God & choose God over you. If you want God’s best for you, THIS kind of man is it!!!!

Yeah well where are they?? The men I see on FIRE for GOD are already married ?

You have to ATTRACT HIM! You can’t gp LOOKING FOR HIM! Ask God for Him. God knows where he is–the one GOD has created especially for YOU! Be richly blessed!

Xalee Tan

Needed this sis. Thank you

Sue Morris

An excellent article detailing very basic and insightful examples. It was readable, down to earth, and noting true experiences of the writer. However, at times the word “he” was capitalized when referring to the one you should let go. At other times the word “he” was capitalized to refer to God. Also, more than frequently, the author used the semicolon when she should have used a comma. The reading did not flow since I had to reread the phrase to get the meaning she intended the sentence to have. Every person of datable age needs to read and keep in… Read more »

Amen..that’s a plus..

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I wish GOD had someone for me boo

I APPROVE

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Hmmmm

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Thanks dear, here i come running.. confirmed

So true.. I’ve been there kinda…but thank God for His Grace upon me..

Not that he chooses God over you but that he gives God his rightful position which is GOD ..

Love the Lord your God is first and love thy neighbour as thyself …

God help me

Brooke Wheeler

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That’s very true. A man of God once said he wouldn’t mind sowing anything as a seed to God even his wife, this shows an insur llllllmllollpmm.mml.mll

Absolutely .