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7 Types of Friends Every Woman Should Have

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The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray. ~Proverbs 12:26

I have always been blessed to be surrounded by some amazing friends in my life. Yes, as the seasons of life change, some have come and gone; some by choice and some by force. But one thing is for certain: we all need a good girlfriend (or two or many) in our lives. There are just some conversations and places that are meant for girlfriends and not necessarily for our significant others. I know that if I have a crisis or need a good ladies’ night out, I will never be without a friend to reach out to.

So even if we don’t hang out as much as I’d like,  I love my girls to death, and there is nothing like their friendship.

Here are 7 types of friends I’m so blessed to have, and think every woman should have too:

The Counselor

This is the one that gives the best advice. She’s been there and done just about everything. For some reason you are comfortable discussing your most private thoughts with her that you wouldn’t dare share with anyone else.  She’s the level headed one who you can vent to about anything and she will not judge you. You feel so much better after your conversations with her. 

The Spiritual One

This is the one you can count on any time of day for a good word or prayer on your behalf. She’s the one that can feed the word to you and give you a bible verse to read that will help you in any situation. She’s your spiritual sister that keeps you on your toes, and empowers you to be still and listen. 

The Supporter

She’s the one, who no matter what you’re doing, you know you can call her and she will be excited for you. She’s one of your biggest cheerleaders. Whether it’s starting a new business or writing a book… Whatever it is, she is going to cheer you on like no one else will. But she genuinely loves and supports everything that you do.

The Funny One

This is the one that can make you laugh under any circumstance and about any situation. You know that when you are in need of a good laugh, you already have this friend on speed dial ready to go. She’s the one that everyone loves to be around and the life of any party because of her sense of humor. It’s hard for anyone to hate her. 

The Blunt One

This is the one that will tell you like it is, even when you don’t want to hear the truth. But she’ll tell you in a loving, sisterly kind of way ( and sometimes, she’ll just give it to you with no filter because the situation calls for it). This is the one that when everyone else is walking on eggshells around you (to avoid hurting your feelings), she’ll tell you exactly how she feels, take it or leave it.

The Motivator

This is the one that motivates you to reach newer heights. She’s the one you see handling her business like a boss, and you are steady taking notes of her every move. She compels you to dig deeper and go after what you really want in life. She’s the one that inspires you to dust off your vision board and get back on track.

The Sensible One

This is the one you call when you want to do something you know you shouldn’t be doing. She’ll listen to your problems and talk you off the ledge. She’ll give you a different, more calm point of view for just about every situation (especially if it means keeping you out of trouble).

113 Comments

113 Comments

  1. Koketso Molope

    April 3, 2017 at 6:08 am

    this is you in my life. Phiwe Mosoane

    • Phiwe Mosoane

      April 3, 2017 at 6:34 am

      We are truelly blessed wit each other😇May God lead our way,May he shower us with luv n bind us 2gda..May he bless us wit life n wisdom and make our frndshp grow stronger day by day..Id b lost without u my shubbie

  2. Priscilla Amponsah

    March 27, 2017 at 8:54 am

    Specialmandy Praise

  3. Noraida Maria

    March 26, 2017 at 9:34 pm

    Missz Adie

  4. Trish Simms

    March 26, 2017 at 8:36 pm

    My 2 daughters are my best and true friends

  5. Angelina Dowdell

    March 26, 2017 at 5:00 pm

    It don’t take a hand full of people to say u have a friend one is good enough you came by yourself so it don’t take much to satisfy god and. yourself

  6. Nthabiseng Mofokeng

    March 26, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    Mamokete Sehanka

  7. Mpolokeng Florence Ntoi

    March 26, 2017 at 1:19 pm

    Xoliswa Nonzwakazi Mjoli

  8. Miriam Haile

    March 26, 2017 at 10:38 am

    Yizu Berhe

    • Yizu Berhe

      March 26, 2017 at 2:27 pm

      I know that i am blessed to have you 😍😍😘😘

  9. Win Franky

    March 26, 2017 at 10:31 am

    Praying for a real friend in my life.

  10. Maame Dansoa Amoah

    March 26, 2017 at 9:51 am

    Yes o

  11. Edith Keruboh

    March 26, 2017 at 9:34 am

    Awuor Thethe ,Martha Kemunto

  12. Chanel Turner

    March 26, 2017 at 7:48 am

    Maria Flores

    • Maria Flores

      March 26, 2017 at 2:37 pm

      Aww. So which one am I? Lol you are most of them for me ♡

    • Chanel Turner

      March 26, 2017 at 8:23 pm

      Sensable, supporter, councelor

  13. Lorna Mainnah

    March 26, 2017 at 7:08 am

    Noella Lubano, Milly Odari, Nelly Gachoka, Lilian Lilian Sogo

  14. Patience Mat

    March 26, 2017 at 6:27 am

    Evodia Mamodise you are that unique friend

  15. Sistah Julie

    March 26, 2017 at 6:22 am

    That’s My Heavenly Daddy, YAAAH

  16. Anna Uribe

    March 26, 2017 at 5:06 am

    I am so blessed to have 10 best friends

  17. Sean Sebastian

    March 26, 2017 at 4:17 am

    MaHazel Cabantac Zayas CupBearer Lucente Maderse

  18. Garnette Jones

    March 26, 2017 at 3:11 am

    I feel blessed to have girlfriends who embody all of these wonderful traits!! #blessed

  19. Donika Buffkins

    March 26, 2017 at 1:43 am

    RaShanda E. Jefferson Bianca James (Binkki Bink) Kelsi Washington Dearra Lashay Johnson Jamila Jackson Jalisa Leeper Queeny Gottaloveme Coleman Ty Dennis

  20. Atlmell Richards

    March 26, 2017 at 1:30 am

    Shem Dixon Tonia McDonald Kemoy Cunningham good enough

  21. Kelly Brown Lambert

    March 26, 2017 at 1:29 am

    Karla Brown, you are all of these to me.

    • Karla Brown

      March 26, 2017 at 1:36 am

      Thank you so much. Right back at you, Kelly. ♥

  22. Shelly Thomas

    March 26, 2017 at 1:13 am

    Yes I agree.

  23. Teresa M Becker

    March 26, 2017 at 12:36 am

    I have these!! Lisa Scott, Carol Anson White, Matthew Christine Pell and Diane Purvis. I am a very lucky girl.

  24. Queenie Lema

    March 26, 2017 at 12:31 am

    Kerol Navarro Frances Marie Solinap Edna Aguilar- Lu Christine Rodrigo Full

  25. Mariam Movsesian

    March 26, 2017 at 12:24 am

    Lily Rostomyan you are that one friend with all of these attributes

  26. Leesette Llaverias

    March 26, 2017 at 12:14 am

    Reann Sommersell I love you for embodying all of these traits. You are for sure one of my most cherished soul sisters.

  27. Jennifer Ramanair

    March 26, 2017 at 12:10 am

    Helen Martin Martin

  28. Alex Baines

    March 26, 2017 at 12:05 am

    Doreen English I’m very blessed with you

  29. Carmen Reynolds

    March 25, 2017 at 11:55 pm

    Cassandra Bowden-Hotchkiss, Lynne Adams and Shameka Williams

  30. Cathy Ume

    March 25, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    Amen.

  31. Erica Weeks

    March 25, 2017 at 11:19 pm

    Melanie Hall Chelsea Rosty Andrea Trenda

  32. Ethel Seiwaa Boateng

    March 25, 2017 at 11:16 pm

    Salomey Osaah Amofah Suglo-Konbo Ibrahim Obadiah Hephzibah Fosu Hall Lucia Owusu-Amponsah glad to have sisters like you.

  33. Nyasha Mudzinganyama

    March 25, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    Patience Gee this is you in my life!!!!

    • Patience Gee

      March 26, 2017 at 12:21 am

      Right back at you boo boo Nyasha Mudzinganyama 😍😍🤗🤗😙😙

  34. Dianne Lëvi

    March 25, 2017 at 10:25 pm

    I wish I had a friend .

  35. Shalena Fountain Mccoy

    March 25, 2017 at 10:10 pm

    Bridgett LaCoste

  36. Carole Thandeka Mabaso

    March 25, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    Royal uyabonaka the one right no Caro

  37. Grace Love

    March 25, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    Mireles Anna

  38. Gladys Wambui Mungai

    March 25, 2017 at 8:59 pm

    I have none. Life goes on.

  39. Tasha Smith

    March 25, 2017 at 8:56 pm

    Myself

  40. Eve SupremeGal

    March 25, 2017 at 8:55 pm

    Carole Thandeka Mabaso Mlandzelalanga Royalness

  41. Brittanny Belin

    March 25, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    Bonnie

  42. Noza Adaralep

    March 25, 2017 at 8:49 pm

    I already found a kind of friend like this……Marjorie Betonio Rojas,AnneDels,EcilaRavilo….thank u my 3 friend for having u in my life……..i love u all…..

  43. Thandy Thandiwe

    March 25, 2017 at 8:47 pm

    Eve SupremeGal

  44. Esha Bug

    March 25, 2017 at 8:15 pm

    I used to have a friend lik this of 32 years but we’ve grown apart life goes on i still love her but i must move foward.. My 2 sisters love me all in these ways as I love them..

  45. Frances Jones

    March 25, 2017 at 8:12 pm

    I feel like if you got 1 just 1 true friend that is a Blessing because friends are hard to find trust an believe that.

  46. Demetrice Tyson

    March 25, 2017 at 8:04 pm

    I have my sister’s all in one

  47. Faith Lynkoi Peterz

    March 25, 2017 at 8:03 pm

    Swthrt Carole Kirumba u are all this to me. Mwaaaaahhh

  48. Jennifer Gay

    March 25, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    Courtney Keyana

  49. Theresa Boone

    March 25, 2017 at 7:57 pm

    I have no friends and wouldn’t know how that kind of friendship feels like

    • Krista Gonsalves

      March 25, 2017 at 8:52 pm

      Me too! I totally know how you feel. It hurts.
      🙂

    • Jessie Bailey

      March 25, 2017 at 8:54 pm

      I was the same had no one I prayed Lord just give me one friend I can love and God gave me a Christian friend God is good pray and wait on God! Also it just didn’t happen I embraced her and God blessed me! He can and will do the same to you. Just love others give them your heart and God works in mighty ways!

    • Theresa Boone

      March 25, 2017 at 8:56 pm

      Thank you Jessie Bailey

    • Gladys Wambui Mungai

      March 25, 2017 at 9:07 pm

      I have none.

    • Venecia Thomas

      March 25, 2017 at 9:51 pm

      I lost my best friend she passed away a few years ago. My life, hasn’t been the same I meet people but no one is like her. She was truly a angel, walking on earth. I miss her so much!!

    • Theresa Boone

      March 25, 2017 at 10:20 pm

      I’m sorry to that VeneciaThomas I’ll pray you’ll find a new friend hopefully like her

  50. Cindy Turner

    March 25, 2017 at 7:56 pm

    Jacki, Carla, Melody

  51. Kim Stubbs

    March 25, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    Veronica Stubbs is number one then there is Leona Stubbs and Ann Williams

  52. Ruth Makendelo

    March 25, 2017 at 7:53 pm

    Yep but he’s not a woman Yves Mumvudi.
    Ou plutôt c moi ki possede ces 7 qualités pr toi mn ami lool
    You’re the best. Thanks

    • Yves Mumvudi

      March 25, 2017 at 10:08 pm

      Lol pendant le même moment j’écoutais “when i see you again” et je disais à Heritier Kama que ça me rapelait toi, lol. On est pena connecté hein. T’es la meilleure Rmak de moi, ingrat! Lol

    • Ruth Makendelo

      March 26, 2017 at 9:27 am

      Lol ingrat yomoko

    • Heritier Kama

      March 27, 2017 at 5:40 pm

      ba sentiment na bino bo tangaka Kombo ya batu mususu

  53. Mariam Hirbo

    March 25, 2017 at 7:42 pm

    Martha Buto and Hide Rebby Hiedi… Am blessed to have you guys….I love you!!!

    • Hide Rebby Hiedi

      March 25, 2017 at 8:27 pm

      You are a Blessing to me too Mariam Hirbo and Martha Buto. I Love You.

    • Martha Buto

      March 26, 2017 at 8:55 am

      awe…actually I always know in my heart that you didn’t come by chance in my life.I love you bunches

  54. Caron Lemboe

    March 25, 2017 at 7:37 pm

    Donique Smith

  55. PreciousRubies Anonited

    March 25, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    YEP ! and then more lol

  56. Brenda Robinson

    March 25, 2017 at 7:22 pm

    I have 2 Sister’s who supply all of these!
    Karen Williams-Marinos, Vashti George
    Thanks. ❤❤❤❤❤

  57. Swali Nerman

    March 25, 2017 at 7:22 pm

    I wish i had even 1 friend,God knws why i dont hv friends

  58. Bridgett C. Davis

    March 25, 2017 at 7:22 pm

    Shalena Fountain Mccoy

  59. Vicky Dzikiti

    March 25, 2017 at 7:18 pm

    Fungatirai Faith Mudhombo read this and we discuss later

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