There’s Sexual pressure
It’s easy to fall ‘in love’ with an ideal of someone and get attached before we know their genuine character.
This can cause us to miss their true intentions. We need to ask ourselves; does he want to get to know me or my body?
I went on a date once with a guy who I thought, was a strong Christian. We sent each other bible verses and had long talks about faith. In our conversations, I told him, I wanted to wait. Then one New Year’s Eve, he invited me to his church. Afterwards, he asked me if I wanted to ring in the New Year by watching fireworks over the ocean (I know ‘romantic’ right?). Thinking this was a nice way to end the evening I said, ‘’yes’’.
However, I quickly realized; in my own naivety, that he just wanted ‘one thing’ and the Christian persona he portrayed was a false way for him to try and get it.
If a guy is sexually pressuring you, it is time to let him go because if he respects and values you; then he will respect and value the lines that you draw for yourself.
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body”. (1 Corinthians 6:18)