How Do You Tell Your Mom It’s Time To Part Ways?

Hello there, I have two questions

1. I recently graduated college and long story short my mother moved in with me after much convincing that she needed to start fresh. After selling her house, business, etc we’ve been living together for a year now, however over the past few months we’ve had major disagreements. She is now not talking to me and its hard. She doesn’t go to church anymore and I tried to get her to go but I feel she feels its awkward due to my friends or my boyfriend often accompanying us. Either way she is now no longer talking to me. Our relationship has been like this for a while really. I went to boarding school when I was 13 and honestly have only lived home 3 years really since graduating high school. I’m currently 24 and very much ready for my own place. Especially seeing as how my living situation is now awkward. But I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. I don’t want to destroy our relationship more (if that seems possible). I already have a budget and know I could do it, but I don’t know if its the right choice or whether there’s a good way to go about it without damaging but actually salvaging our relationship. Advice please?

2. Sorry this is my second question. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were kids. Met at church. We were always enemies in Bible games and etc, but have since become good friends and now have been dating for 2 years. He knows I’m the one and I feel the same. We don’t believe in making out or anything like that but think kissing is ok. There has been times where I’ll be at his place watching a movie and its late and I’ll just sleep there. I know the Bible often talks about adultery and sex before marriage and stuff but what about falling asleep in the same bed? We’ve talked before about moving together and getting 2 separate bedrooms though we know our parents will kill us, and I am old fashioned in that sense. We’re planning to get married after he graduates in 2 years. I know things can happen and change but I don’t know what to do. Am I sinning by sleeping on his bed? And we have both seriously decided to not have sex or make-out til married.

Thanks

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