“I love him, but…”
Hands up if you’ve ever said this? If you have, chances are you may be “settling” for the wrong relationship.
In life, settling is a common problem. Some of us settle for jobs that we can’t bear another minute of, or a living situation that is less than ideal.
And some of us even settle in relationships. Relationships with people who make us question why we ever got into a relationship with them in the first place.
Women in particular can feel pressured to settle. Whether by relatives (“Why are you still single?”) or their coupled-up friends, or simply because they are scared that the right person will never come along.
But none of these are good reasons to get into a relationship. Not only do you run the risk of feeling unhappy and unfulfilled, but by settling for a relationship you know isn’t good for you, you could be allowing that person to fill a space in your life that God has appointed for someone else.
If you’re not sure if you’re settling, here are 5 sure signs you’re settling in your relationships…