5 Warning Signs He’s Not The One For You

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5 Warning Signs He’s Probably Not The One God Has For You…

Are you dating someone and wondering  if he is not the one God has for you? If so, You’re not alone.

Three college friends and I sat in a hotel lounge, chatting about our younger days.

What was I thinking? The signs were all there, telling me he was Mr. Wrong,” one of them said as she sipped her latte. “I didn’t see the red flags ‘cause I was too busy being in love with the idea of being loved.

Me too,” my other friend said. “Why didn’t someone write the book on how to find the man of your dreams?”

All four of us chuckled. We graduated from the same college, lived in the same dorm. And, though none of us would admit it, we shared similar restlessness about finding the right man.

We attended classes but in that college campus, what we secretly studied was the male population, hoping one of them would be husband material.In general, the search was fun. But at times, high expectations ended up in deep disappointment.

And other times, the “love” we chased ended up with heartache chasing us instead. But even with a few scars, we made it through with a wealth of insight. Most of which comes from experiences lived, episodes endured, and lessons learned in the classroom of pain.

How different our lives would have been if we only had the wisdom to heed these signs.

Sometimes there aren’t any red flags, but there are signs that should cause you to pause and ask yourself if you’re making the right decision.

Here are just a few of those warning signs…


Written by The Praying Woman

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Wow, amazing! This is very helpful for me. I’m @ the crossroad of making the decision on who to marry, however, I’ve been having the same red flag signs, particularly about issues involving money, and his words, actions, demeanor, attitude… reflecting his convictions… This article is very timely. Thanks


Thank you. This is so helpful. GOD bless you and keep serving GOD. Amen. Thank you so much.