If it's not God's will, choose not to go where God's not leading you. Here are four Things to Remember When You Step Outside of God's Will...
When God's Answer is "No", It can hurt and leave us confused. One thing I've learned is we can pout now and thank Him later or walk by faith and thank Him in advance.
When "Bad" Things Happen to Good People, it's easy to question "Where is God?". Hopefully this article helps.