3 Things To Do If You Want Closure

I remember being in the bookstore a few years ago as I was looking for another book on how to breakthrough my singleness journey of dead end relationship after dead end relationship.

It was at that moment when I saw a book with this title “If You Want Closure, Start With Your Legs” that title cut me like the Word, it felt sharper than a two-edge sword.

I had been dating this guy from my college.  He was different from the guys I had dated in the past (or so I thought).

Although the packaging was different, the elements of the relationship remain the same. 

The straw that broke the camel’s back was when I saw douche under his bathroom cabinet and he said it belonged to his sisters.

Then he told me to stop asking about it because even if he cheated I would stay.  I knew at that point, this had gone too far and he had absolutely no respect for me.

It was at this point that I realized that I did not have any respect for myself neither  I had no idea how, but I knew something had to give.

There were 3 critical things that freed me from these types of relationships…

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Christine Monageng
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Amen.

Judi Klaus
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Been married for 27 years and unequally yoked for over 6 years. Need listen to God, for He knows, what is best for me. Could mean closing the door. Husband has gone done the wrong path and stepped outside the marriage.

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I believe in his grace

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Thank You HEAVENLY FATHER GLORY TO YOUR NAME AMEN AMEN AND AMEN

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So true

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AMEN

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Amen

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Sometimes it feels that God is against us in times like this, but he has a better plan for us

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❤️ you

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? he’s back

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Wait what??!!

Nobuhle Nkosi
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Wait what??!!

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????

April Harvey
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Love it! Blunt and to-the-point!

Carrecia Lynette W
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Easier said than done…

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Kristyl Delos Reyes read this

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Chauntelle Mayberry
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I’m not sure why this tagged you. I tried to delete it and it won’t let me

Janice Wyatt Jones
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Well it’s ok I read it.

Janice Wyatt Jones
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I thought it was going to say I get a shot gun gun and get it done?

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True.

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