My Husband Wants To Bring Others In Our Bed


My husband and I have been married for 14 years. We have 3 kids and the youngest is only 6 months old. We have just started our own church with a small following. My husband is a good husband in every way, don’t get me wrong but recently we have not been what you call sexually compatible. He’s into things that I’m not into. He wants to do things, I’m not quite comfortable with. He gets sex whenever he wants it, but when he doesn’t get it how he wants it, It’s a fight. Now he has asked me to consent to bringing in someone else into our bed and swinging with other couples. This obviously is something I’m not okay with. But from a biblical point, is this when we should part ways because obviously swinging is adultery? I’m just confused. I love my husband, but I don’t want to go to hell for him. On the other hand, I feel like if I don’t consent, he’s going to do it anyways behind my back. Please pray for us and offer any advice. Thanks!

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Is it adultery if you’re together?
I’m not saying you should have to do this if you don’t want to, but if the only thing holding you back if the definition of adultery, perhaps that is worth thinking on.

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