I’ve been married to my husband for 5 years. We have 2 kids together. When we first married, we would have sex everyday. Now I sometimes fake sleep just to get out of having sex with him. Believe me I would love to be attracted to my husband the way I was 5 years ago. There’s no one else. I don’t want a divorce. But there is definitely a problem in the sex area. He thinks I’m cheating on him and I try to make him understand that I’m not. I always blame it on the kids or say I’m tired because in this case I’m not sure if honesty is the best policy. I want to tell my husband the truth so that we can get professional help together, but I’m scared he will leave me. He has told me that he doesn’t want to have sex with me if it’s forced. But it’s only a matter of time before he starts to look elsewhere. Sometimes I just sit and cry at night and wonder why am I not attracted to my husband? I love him. Why can’t I be attracted to him? Please say a prayer for my marriage. I really want it to work. I don’t want to lose my husband. Should I tell him the truth and pray that we can move forward?
What are your thoughts? Any advice for this young lady?