Hi ladies! I am so honored to be a new contributor on this site. I look forward to sharing more with you all as the days go by. I wanted to share a posting that has been on my heart. I wrote this a very long time ago at the Spirit’s leading and it ministered to so many women, that I was surprised. Once again, I feel a leading to share it here. You might have read the title and asked yourself, what is she talking about and why is she posting it here, well because I know that if…
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41-year-old actress Nia Long and her two sons 11-year-old Massai Zhivago Dorsey II and seven-month-old Kez Sunday Udoka grace the cover of the August issue of ESSENCE Magazine. Nia has been in a relationship with her last child’s father, Ime Udoka for about 2 years, but don’t expect to hear wedding bells just yet! In the article, Nia says … “I’m in my forties, post baby and I’m thinner than I’ve been in years. The last step will be letting my hair go natural. That’s when you’ll know I’m free…” On Marriage: “Marriage is not a priority for me. I’m not saying I’ll…
Single ladies: Is cheating a red flag for you when dating? Could you continue a relationship or marry someone after they have cheated on you? Married ladies, Are there deal breakers for marriage? Anything that you’re NOT willing to put up with? Or is it “Till death do us part?” Everyone seems to have a different opinion when it comes to cheating. Let us know if you agree with this guy!
So you think you’ve found “the one”. Everything seems as though it’s too good to be true. You have so much in common, his family loves you, you love them, and whenever you’re apart, it seems like an eternity. Fast forward a few years later, the relationship really hasn’t progressed much, except you’re probably shacking up by now. There’s an old saying… “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Do you believe this to be true? If yes, how long are you willing to wait for a marriage proposal. Should there even be a timeframe,…
Loyal Reader says: This guy had always liked me for about 8 or 9 years. When I decided to begin healing and letting go of my past, he popped up. We started dating and I felt so strong for him. But I was scared and didn’t want to like him as much. I went back to being guarded. Anyway, I decided to push through. The relationship was rocky because I tried to find every reason to make him into a liar. Well he was going through some serious family issues with three different family members. I tried to be there…
Loyal Reader Writes: This guy and I have been friends for over a year. In January, we admitted our feelings towards each other. The problem is that he has been in several relationships in the past in which all of them ended up with him being hurt and disappointed. Because of this, he does not want to get into a relationship again. Our friendship continued to be on a great track until a month ago. We stopped communicating as much, and I haven’t heard from him in almost 2 weeks. I don’t know if I said or done something wrong…
Single Ladies, Here are 5 Red Flags That Could Save You Time and Heartache


