5 Prayers Every Woman Should Pray For Her Man


Magazine headlines and online articles often draw us in by headlines that promise to tell us the secrets to pleasing our men. Some sources even list out how to be the best wife or girlfriend that we can be by showing support, being vulnerable, showing affection and being a good listener. These are all good things, but is this really the best we can do for our men?

The most important thing we can do for our men is something we are probably not in the habit of doing. It may be something we strive to do more often but for whatever reason are not able to do it consistently.

Sometimes doing this thing is inconvenient or maybe even uncomfortable if we are not sure how. However, this thing is the single most important thing you can do for your man.

This thing is prayer.

As believers, we have the distinct honor and privilege to pray for the men in our lives.  If we are honest, sometimes we don’t know how to pray or grow weary of doing so. This has been the case in my life but I want to encourage you all to commit to praying for your man for 30 days straight. During this process you may realize that you didn’t pray for him as much as you thought or you may find that you don’t know what specifically to pray.

I am challenging you to stand in confidence before the throne of God and pray for purity, obedience, wisdom, exhortation and responsibility (P.O.W.E.R.) in the lives of the men around you. Jesus Christ has already given us the authority to tear down strongholds, bring healing, and deliverance to the men in our lives. Each day as you pray, praise God for the transformation that is taking place in God’s perfect timing.

Below is a set of P.O.W.E.R prayers that you can use to kickstart your prayers. 


In the power of Jesus’s name, I claim purity to be released in my man’s life.  I command purity to penetrate the impure places in his heart, mind, soul, and body. I thank you because I know that the light of purity is shedding light in the darkest places of his life. I command the impurity to flee from his spirit now. By faith, I believe these things to be done.


In the power of Jesus’ name, I claim obedience to be released in my man’s life. I bind the spirit of disobedience from his life this day. I take authority over the spirits of distrust, rebellion, and self-will that seek to ruin his life and bind them. They have no place in his life. I loose unwavering trust and humble submission into his life day. By faith, I believe these things to be done.


In the power of Jesus’s name, I command wisdom to be released in my man’s life.  I take authority over the spirit of folly and worldly wisdom and bind it in the name of Jesus. I loose the gift of discernment into his life, that he would know your works from the works of Satan. Bless your servant with a heart of understanding and give wisdom generously to him. I rebuke all doubt that would hinder your gift of wisdom, for we know that wisdom is only granted when asked in faith and without doubt. By faith, I believe these things to be done.


In the power of Jesus’s name, I command the gift of exhortation to be released in my man’s life.  Open wide his mouth to boldly speak forth truth to anyone that crosses his path whose heart is ready to receive the truth. I take authority over the spirit of laziness that would keep him from studying your word; and therefore keep him from sharing biblical words of knowledge and encouragement. I renounce the spirit of fear that would keep him from speaking truth in times where the truth is unpopular. By faith, I believe these things to be done.


In the power of Jesus’s name, I command a generous portion of responsibility to be released in my man’s life. May he always be aware that you have first and foremost called him to be holy and sanctified. I bind the attitude of carelessness that would keep him from taking up his responsibility to live out your call. I cast down the strongholds of sexual immorality in his life because you have said that he is responsible for his body which is your temple and is to be honored in all things. Your holy call is irrevocable; and therefore, he is responsible to live it out. May he proudly take up his responsibility to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with you.

Nina Borum

Nina Borum

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Nina Elaine Borum is a speaker, author and coach. She loves to encourage, inspire and motivate women. Nina currently resides in Nashville.
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  1. Abigael Garduno

    April 1, 2017 at 10:17 pm

  2. Bonolo Mathebula

    March 31, 2017 at 6:01 pm


  3. Tinashe Gopo

    March 31, 2017 at 7:53 am


  4. Treazer Shugulali

    March 30, 2017 at 3:00 pm

    Wow Father i thank you for God Fearing Man u have given unto my life, in ups & down he encourages me to be still & know that ur God. He is really a blessing to me may u countinue using him in Jesus wonderful name

  5. Precious Mokoena Nwachukwu

    March 30, 2017 at 1:32 pm

    that’s awesome

  6. Yolanda Fagan

    March 30, 2017 at 1:30 pm

    Amen Amen and Amen. Now that’s sexy as it can get.

  7. Onyinyechi Divine

    March 30, 2017 at 1:12 pm


  8. Salbie Mahungwa

    March 30, 2017 at 12:10 pm


  9. Seboladi Moeti

    March 30, 2017 at 12:06 pm

    Pray with me so that i can hear the voice of the lord

  10. Amanda M Snow

    March 30, 2017 at 11:24 am

    Maurice R. Snow

  11. Jas Min

    March 30, 2017 at 10:44 am


  12. Mich W Aula

    March 30, 2017 at 10:32 am

    Yes! It’s very important…Tell him the man he wants for you and not the man you want for yourself, also tell him your heart desires! At the end of the day God makes the right choices for us because he’ll never give us anything less than what we deserve. His timing is always perfect…Let Go And Let GodThank U Lord

  13. Luzviminda Arenas

    March 30, 2017 at 10:23 am


  14. Leleti Makoena Tsoloane

    March 30, 2017 at 8:27 am

    Im single, and im praying for a soul mate who will later be my hubby, a God fearing person, with respect whose gonna love me for who am i, i also pray God to make me d best partner.

  15. Stella Cheeks

    March 30, 2017 at 8:01 am


  16. Amy Airey

    March 30, 2017 at 7:07 am


  17. Blessings Mpunga

    March 30, 2017 at 5:54 am


  18. Ana Mae Maymay Dusaran

    March 30, 2017 at 4:57 am

    A must step for a woman to take for it really matters whom God sent for her not the one whom she wants to be with.

  19. Nompi Margaret

    March 30, 2017 at 4:12 am

    Im praying the anger of my husbang and plz i want abig prayer plz

  20. Delane Alligood

    March 30, 2017 at 2:22 am

    Michael Jay Alligood

  21. Carmen Cortez

    March 30, 2017 at 2:13 am

    I pray for my husband every day, even after he left our home. Decided he wanted to be of the world. His decision he ended everything. But still praying for him.

    • Khan Mudasir

      March 30, 2017 at 3:15 am

      Carmen you makes me cry…. May god rest his soul in peace…
      Add me dear i wana b your friend

    • Cassandra Harrington Rice

      March 30, 2017 at 1:00 pm

      I’m in the same situation. Still too soon for me to be that generous but I will get there…

  22. Kaye Taunan

    March 30, 2017 at 1:03 am


  23. Nuggets Darbouze

    March 30, 2017 at 12:47 am

    An excellent example of how to pray not only for your future husband and also for everyone who comes across your path in this journey called called life!!!!!!!!!!!

  24. Norma Mija

    March 30, 2017 at 12:41 am

    Sabrina Victoria

  25. Cynthia Gabriel

    March 30, 2017 at 12:35 am

    Eversince I was single,I prayed for the right man.God sent admirers but only one was persistent to put God in the center of our lives & he’s my husband. I always pray for him despite the differences we have. Thank you Lord for sending him coz he gave me a purpose to live life meaningfully.

  26. Latrice Truesdale

    March 30, 2017 at 12:06 am

    Yes I agree

  27. Carey Goacher Simpson

    March 29, 2017 at 11:57 pm

    Ronda Gore Race

  28. Kiana Parker

    March 29, 2017 at 11:23 pm


  29. Tyree Watson

    March 29, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    Ain’t that the truth!!??

  30. Leonie Van der Ross

    March 29, 2017 at 10:41 pm


  31. Leena Amin

    March 29, 2017 at 10:27 pm

    Kika Kaur Sonal Patel Sennye Mogale

  32. Courtney Blair

    March 29, 2017 at 9:53 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 9:40 pm

    Donna Francis

  34. Cora Jackson

    March 29, 2017 at 8:59 pm


  35. Sonya Alexander

    March 29, 2017 at 8:59 pm

    I pray for my husband, I didnt at first but I do now for w hat would a g ood wife be that didnt pray for her man.?

  36. Sonya Alexander

    March 29, 2017 at 8:55 pm


  37. Onyinyechi Amara

    March 29, 2017 at 8:54 pm

    I am single Bt i pray for my husband bcos I know he needs God guidance in his life. Amen

  38. Judith Redman Kirk

    March 29, 2017 at 8:49 pm


  39. Cindy Hull

    March 29, 2017 at 8:40 pm

    I pray for my man every day . That God makes him well again . What would my world be like with out him . He is my rock . And I love him .more than all the stars in the sky .

  40. Kasandra Garcia

    March 29, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    I am single but I pray for my future husband already. May seem crazy to some but I enjoy doing it. I pray for God to guard his heart and guide his path. AMEN.

    • Karen Bieker

      March 29, 2017 at 8:50 pm

      It isn’t crazy. GOD wants to hear every request…keep doing it.

    • Kasandra Garcia

      March 29, 2017 at 9:50 pm

      Amen and will do. Thank you!

    • Cynthia Gabriel

      March 30, 2017 at 12:38 am

      God will give you the right man in His time.Don’t worry.He will be more than what you expect.God bless you as you search for your man.😀

    • Babz Norah

      March 30, 2017 at 3:21 pm


    • Kasandra Garcia

      March 30, 2017 at 3:22 pm

      Amen and thank you..😊

    • Kasandra Garcia

      March 30, 2017 at 3:22 pm

      Amen. 👌

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    March 29, 2017 at 7:48 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 7:27 pm

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    March 29, 2017 at 6:45 pm

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    March 29, 2017 at 6:44 pm


  45. A Labasterbox Cornish

    March 29, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    But it’s not appretiated

  46. Monique Kerubo

    March 29, 2017 at 6:43 pm

    It’s always not what one says but what one does.

  47. Agnes Vilakazi

    March 29, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    Tshepiso Dwaba

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    March 29, 2017 at 6:39 pm

    Agnes Vilakazi

  49. Lorna Marie Lariviere

    March 29, 2017 at 6:29 pm

  50. Laura Randolph

    March 29, 2017 at 6:27 pm

    i want a man like that. i waiting and patient. it hard at my age almost 50 years age

  51. Florence Mawufemo Anipa

    March 29, 2017 at 6:20 pm

    Mawusi Adiamah

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    March 29, 2017 at 6:18 pm

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  53. Kathlene Edwards

    March 29, 2017 at 5:59 pm


  54. Wanda Cslhoun

    March 29, 2017 at 5:51 pm


  55. Erica Lett

    March 29, 2017 at 5:46 pm

    Pray truth for your boaz!The one that God wants to give you!

  56. Katlego Kgware

    March 29, 2017 at 5:40 pm


  57. Unity Garawaziva

    March 29, 2017 at 5:40 pm


  58. Arinola Tuomola

    March 29, 2017 at 5:19 pm

    Amen. True that

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    March 29, 2017 at 5:14 pm

    Jasmin Navarro Jazmine Skinner Huong Pham (Kelly) Emily Langston

  60. Karen Bieker

    March 29, 2017 at 5:09 pm

    I read the whole article. My man is the one who taught me how to pray for him. He has the gift of discernment. He wouldn’t continue when we first thought of starting till he heard my Christian testimony. So he asked. I gave it and didn’t hold back. Nothing to lose so honesty reigned. Prayer is the basis of our relationship & will always be. Scriptures & gospel hymns are also an integral part. We hope to write our journey someday.

  61. Previledge Masautare

    March 29, 2017 at 4:59 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 4:28 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 4:25 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 4:21 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 3:55 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 3:54 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 3:48 pm


  68. Janet Viashima

    March 29, 2017 at 3:39 pm

    Am greatful lord

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    March 29, 2017 at 3:31 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 3:29 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 3:20 pm

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    March 29, 2017 at 3:10 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:58 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:56 pm


  75. Terry Daley

    March 29, 2017 at 2:51 pm

    Thank you Jesus Amen

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    March 29, 2017 at 2:45 pm

    Alvin Esteban Alma

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    March 29, 2017 at 2:43 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:35 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:33 pm


  80. Crystal Urdaneta

    March 29, 2017 at 2:32 pm

    Indeed ❤

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    March 29, 2017 at 2:28 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:27 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:24 pm

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    March 29, 2017 at 2:20 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:20 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:16 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:16 pm


  89. Pepper Gutierrez

    March 29, 2017 at 2:06 pm

    True! Amen

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    March 29, 2017 at 2:04 pm


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    March 29, 2017 at 2:03 pm


  92. Bobbie Deal

    March 29, 2017 at 2:02 pm

    Amen nothing better

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