Hello all… I am in a very hard place right now. My husband and myself have been married for almost 8 years now. He has a daughter from a previous relationship, but we have no children together. When we first met, we did have the baby talk and we both decided that we would wait to start a family and not rush into it. I finished school, He finished school, and 5 years later we are still babyless. The only difference now is that I’m so ready and he’s still not ready. Every time I bring it up, it’s an argument. We both…
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As singles, we’re used to hearing and seeking people’s advice and guidance regarding dating, and relationships. Often times, we look to family or our closest friends for their thoughts and trusted approval of the person that we’re dating. Do you take time to seek what God has to say about the person you’re dating? When it comes to finding the right match, Father truly knows best. We’re well into wedding and anniversary season so just be prepared for those “I need a boo” feelings. Don’t be discouraged by a lot of people progressing in their next chapters; you never know…
The number of romantic relationships that initiate online grows every day. Not only do we have digital means of discovering home towns, previous relationships, and taste in books and movies, we have a whole new way of communicating, too. As the way we date has changed over the years, so has the way we experience heartbreak. Instead of handing off a note or speaking face-to-face, now we can call, send a text, write an email, or, simply, stop talking altogether. Many relationships end online because that’s where they began in the first place. Men and women spend weeks and months…
My husband and I married young. It was a long distance relationship and I thought he was a Godly man that served in the youth group. I was naive and should have taken the signs before as red flags. He was emotionally and verbally abusive to me. I was so blind because I always gave him the benefit of the doubt. I should’ve taken the signs as a warning before we got married. There was stress, arguments every week. On the day of my wedding I didn’t want to go through with it but he convinced me and when I…
Daniel McArthur, manager of the Christian bakery that refused to make a “Support Gay Marriage” cake, is speaking out about his family’s commitment to their beliefs. Ashers Baking Company of Northern Ireland recently declined an order to make a cake featuring Bert and Ernie and the slogan in favor of gay marriage; the family-owned business is facing legal action for the the decision they made based on their religious principles. In an interview with the Daily Mail, McArthur said that the decision was not intended to cause distress, but to follow what their faith says is says. “We are not…
When retired pastor Charles Moore (pictured) set himself on fire on June 23 at a Grand Saline, Texas, step mall parking lot, he was reportedly prayerful that his act of suicide did not go in vain. Moore, who had dedicated his life to fighting against racism, left behind a suicide note that reportedly states he has decided to kill himself because he was haunted by the yester-year lynchings of African Americans and wanted his death to inspire social reform, according to the New York Daily News. Charles Robert Moore, drove from his home in Allen, to Grand Saline, parked his…
Some married folks are quick to complain about the flaws of their spouse. For some odd reason many of us think we’re perfect. It’s difficult to recognize our own errors, but easy to point out those of others. Go figure. When I was a young single I had this image of the perfect spouse. A mate who catered to my every need with limited flaws seemed ideal. Unrealistic, I know. What I didn’t consider was that in order to attract a worthy mate I had to be one first. I had to think about my role and responsibility as a…
With all of the crazy videos, gifs, and memes circulating online these days, it’s kind of refreshing when you come across one that is truly worth watching or better yet, one that brings a smile to your face. Especially when it’s encouragement in the form of a pint sized 3 year old. In this video 3 year old Londyn Kennedy covers Mary Mary’s Gospel Hit, ‘Go Get It’… And it’s pretty obvious that she’s really feeling every word of it. Watch as she gives God praise and reminds you to go get your blessing.
After many years of not meeting someone that I believed would be a good match for me and me for him, … and someone I was willing to invest my time in and for, I finally have a special man in my life. We met about a year ago, and over the last six months we have shared, and learned so much about each other. We developed a friendship that we have recently recognized and acknowledged as now more than friends. As we continue to grow closer, of course we discuss even more personal things about ourselves. We share our…
I am in need of desperate prayers. My husband is an aspiring actor. He’s passionate about what he does. Problem is, it doesn’t pay the bills. I have stuck by his side, supported his dream, and picked up the slack for our kids for 5 years now, and I’m tired. When is enough enough? My husband hasn’t had a full time in 5 years. Only little acting gigs here and there, but nothing that we can depend on. Right now, we are so backed up in our bills, my car will be repossessed any day now. I’m trying very hard…
Hi, In a couple of months I should be receiving divorce papers from My Husband. Throughout Our 3 year marriage I bullied and intimidated and constantly threatened divorce at My Husband until He finally snapped and left just before Christmas 2013. When this happened The Lord completely broke me and showed me my sinful heart. In this 6 months He has started a deep cleansing, healing and deliverance within me. Up until a month ago I was still sending my husband sarcastic intimidating emails or text messages. I decided to cut off all contact and just let the Lord finish…
I really don’t know where to start. So forgive me if I’m all over the place and thank you for the opportunity to address some issues that are tearing me apart and also request prayer. I’m a recently divorced, single mother of 2 beautiful kids. A 12 year old and a 14 year old. My 14 year old has just decided to tell me that she is attracted to girls and has a girlfriend which she met at her school. I have met with the girl’s parents and explained to them that unlike them, I am not okay with this…
Actress and gospel singer Tamela Mann has been having a great time lately. With an award-winning song in 2013, “Take Me To The King” off an award-winning album. Her show just got green-lighted to begin airing in 2015 with her husband of 26 years, David Mann on BET. And she’s managed to continually keep the weight off (it’s reported that it was over 240lbs she lost). “The first thing people say is, ‘Y’all look good! Y’all don’t look like you do on TV,’ ” says Tamela. “People see us every day [on TV]. They saw that we were big, and…
Have you ever received a gift you didn’t deserve? The gift was given to you out of love. God is so great that He gives us His grace because of His love for us. Grace is God showing His love to you even though you don’t deserve it. You can’t earn God’s grace. You do not deserve to be saved from sin and to have eternal life. But God showed His grace by saving you from sin’s punishment when you trusted in Jesus as your Savior. God also shows His grace by giving you strength and guidance, and by taking…
Under a new bill signed into law last week in Oklahoma, couples who wish to divorce and have children will be required by law to go through an education program before their divorce is granted. The law will go into affect in on November 1, 2014. The sponsors of the bill, state Representative Jason Nelson (R) and Senator Rob Standridge (R), say the purpose is to educate parents about the effects of divorce on children as well as advising them about reconciliation. Senator Standridge stated, “If you are going through the whole divorce process and have kids, if we can…
Your first year of marriage is the most exciting time of your life. It is the opportune time to lay a solid foundation for the rest of your life together. Over the course of your first year, the majority of your time will be spent learning one another, adjusting to new life schedules, and doing life together. While you are learning the ride of marriage, it is easy to shy away from preparing your marriage for the future, and also developing healthy habits. Here are 3 actions that can destroy your marriage in the first year. 1. Living Day to…
Grammy-winning gospel legend Andraé Crouch is facing some “serious health challenges.” The 71-year-old’s twin sister Sandra Crouch has reached out to family, friends and fans of the iconic singer/songwriter soliciting prayers for her brother. Andraé, who is the Senior Pastor at Christ Memorial Church of God in Christ in Pacoima, Calif., was hospitalized recently and was just released last week. A Note From Crouch Family: Hello Friends, “Our dear Father in the gospel, Pastor Andraé Crouch, is facing some serious health challenges and was just released from the hospital last week. His music has encouraged us, helped many make a…
Trying to quit your sweet tooth cravings? Well “substituting” sugar may or may not be your best bet. Nowadays almost everything has sugar added to it, and worse, sugar is like a bad crook–it has all different kind of names. Must Read: 5 Things You Need To Know Before You Try This Fitness Challenge But not all sugar substitutes are the same, so read this before you start swapping out the real deal. That way you know what “sweet” you should eat. 1. Sugar Is Actually Not So Bad After All Sugar gets a bad rep. Many people overestimate the…
Does your hair seem a little less vibrant these days? You can be using the best hair products around, but the below seven things may make it harder to keep your locks healthy and strong. Your Meds According to medical experts, medications like statins, anti-depressants, anti-anxiety agents, and hormones can cause hair loss by disrupting the normal hair growth cycle. If you think this is happening to you, talk to your doctor about changing up your prescription, if possible. Your Shampoo (Or Rather, The Lack Of It) Women often don’t wash their hair as often as they should, in an…
I am stuck in a tough position. I have been at my job for a little over 2 years. I prayed for this job and felt like it was an answer to my prayer. My husband was let go from his job 10 months ago and since then, he has not been able to find another job. Well last month my job hired someone who was hired specifically to assist me with my work load. Little did I know that the new hire would be an ex boyfriend of mine. I had to train this guy and work closely with…
