What are Christian ways to deal with an enemy? Dealing with someone who dislikes you is never easy. It is like walking on eggshells. You are very uncomfortable and always uneasy because you’re constantly butting heads. It is bad enough if it is a co-worker or boss but It is even more difficult if we live with the person(s) and cannot avoid interacting with him/her. So as Christians, what do we do? How do we handle such situations? Here are Five Godly Ways to Deal With an Enemy: 1. Avoid the conflict – As soon as we see it…

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In the wake of engagement season, the blossoming of flowers and the ever so present visits of pollen, single women have found themselves both congratulating and wishing.  Being happy for friends and family who are taking that next step in life, but wishing that it was their time.  I can’t tell you how many times I have had conversations with friends about how we’re happy with God and YouTube videos, but then there’s that one post.  That post that makes you get down on your knees and ask the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob why you’re still single.  When…

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Most people, if not all, have probably looked in the mirror once in their lives and hated what they saw. Some might have wished to change something about themselves physically. Some may have felt they are just not good enough and some may even flat out detest the person they’ve become. Dark experiences may have been tattooed in their minds which make it even harder to love themselves.  I am one of those people. I was unhappy and dissatisfied with myself and my life in general. How did I escape out of this seemingly hopeless situation?  Learn to forgive yourself “If we confess…

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When there is greatness on the horizon, the devil will always send “The Counterfeit Man”. His witty methods are designed to block blessings, good juju, and a great man, but when God has something amazing for you, it will go beyond your comprehension. I am sure you are wondering who is the counterfeit man? The counterfeit man is any man who distracts, delays, interrupts, or totally obstructs God’s plan for the single woman’s life. God’s plan for the single woman’s future is often hindered when she becomes involved with “The Counterfeit Man” I found myself in an all wrong relationship when I…

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One of the greatest decisions you will will probably ever make in your life is whether to sit there, relax and daydream about it or stand up for something you’re not even sure of and take the risk. At some point in your life, you’ve probably had one of those days and maybe you’re still having them. A time when it was really hard for you to surrender a life that’s been familiar to you, something which has eventually become a routine. Maybe you’re being nudged to start a ministry, start a business, write a book, or maybe you’re finally ready to…

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Giving yourself fully to Christ means serving others. No amount of money or even anyone can ever return the joy and sense of fulfillment in serving others. It makes your existence worthwhile having a cause bigger than yourself. But for some of us, why is it really hard to serve others? Upon reading the bible, I found a single verse that can greatly help us in serving others. And here are the 3 keys: Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil. Cling to what is good – Romans 12:9 1. Love must be sincere As the saying goes, you can give without…

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“Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Hebrews 10:25). Recently, I ran into an old friend I haven’t seen since high school. It was terrific seeing him again and reminiscing on the past. We talked about how a group of us girls abused him when we were teenagers (he was younger than us). He recalled in detail an instance when we made him cry at a youth group lock-in. I just had to laugh because we probably did that! He also…

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