Compatibility is much more than just getting along with your mate. It’s knowing that your mate has compatible views and opinions on some of the most important issues in your life. Most couples who are not compatible have relationship problems that lead to a break up. Before you get too serious… You need to know if the new man in your life is a keeper. Before you get too attached, there are five questions every woman should ask. To make your intentions clear and his as well, it’s never too early to strike up these conversations. You can start these questions…

I am in need of desperate prayers. My husband is an aspiring actor. He’s passionate about what he does. Problem is, it doesn’t pay the bills. I have stuck by his side, supported his dream, and picked up the slack for our kids for 5 years now, and I’m tired. When is enough enough? My husband hasn’t had a full time in 5 years. Only little acting gigs here and there, but nothing that we can depend on. Right now, we are so backed up in our bills, my car will be repossessed any day now. I’m trying very hard…

Hi, In a couple of months I should be receiving divorce papers from My Husband. Throughout Our 3 year marriage I bullied and intimidated and constantly threatened divorce at My Husband until He finally snapped and left just before Christmas 2013. When this happened The Lord completely broke me and showed me my sinful heart. In this 6 months He has started a deep cleansing, healing and deliverance within me. Up until a month ago I was still sending my husband sarcastic intimidating emails or text messages. I decided to cut off all contact and just let the Lord finish…

Top 4 Things That Distract Us From God There are a lot of things that can distract us from God. Sometimes we don’t even realize that they are distracting us. Sometimes it’s a constant struggle to keep our eyes fixed on God, and to not become distracted by the passing concerns and things of this world. But if we are aware of what can, and does, interfere with our walks with God, we can begin to take the necessary actions to prevent them. Remember, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added…

Are You Allowing Negativity to Block Your Blessings? Try to look for something positive in each day. Even if some days, you have to look a little harder.

I really don’t know where to start. So forgive me if I’m all over the place and thank you for the opportunity to address some issues that are tearing me apart and also request prayer. I’m a recently divorced, single mother of 2 beautiful kids. A 12 year old and a 14 year old. My 14 year old has just decided to tell me that she is attracted to girls and has a girlfriend which she met at her school. I have met with the girl’s parents and explained to them that unlike them, I am not okay with this…

Seeking love and commitment can be challenging, as well as rewarding. It’s challenging because we have to kiss a few frogs before we actually locate our prince. It’s rewarding because dating is an opportunity for self discovery and should be enjoyable. I strongly believe there are specific temptations and situations single folks must avoid. So without further ado…. Here are 5 Things Single Christians Should Never Do: 1. Pursue someone who is unavailable “Unfaithfulness is a character flaw that we shouldn’t desire in a potential mate.” Besides the fact that we all know it’s biblically wrong, a married man is simply not in…

People always say that marriage is hard work, and it is, but what makes it harder is when couples avoid having difficult conversations. The reason for avoidance can vary. Anything, from discomfort to fear to a simple oversight, can lead a couple to miss out on a discussion that could very well make a huge difference in their marriage. When couples avoid important conversations, those issues inevitably come up at some point. Sure, maybe you can go a few months, or even a few years, without a problem, but one day you will experience this awkward moment when you realize…

Actress and gospel singer Tamela Mann has been having a great time lately. With an award-winning song in 2013, “Take Me To The King” off an award-winning album. Her show just got green-lighted to begin airing in 2015 with her husband of 26 years, David Mann on BET. And she’s managed to continually keep the weight off (it’s reported that it was over 240lbs she lost). “The first thing people say is, ‘Y’all look good! Y’all don’t look like you do on TV,’ ” says Tamela. “People see us every day [on TV]. They saw that we were big, and…

Have you ever received a gift you didn’t deserve? The gift was given to you out of love. God is so great that He gives us His grace because of His love for us. Grace is God showing His love to you even though you don’t deserve it. You can’t earn God’s grace. You do not deserve to be saved from sin and to have eternal life. But God showed His grace by saving you from sin’s punishment when you trusted in Jesus as your Savior. God also shows His grace by giving you strength and guidance, and by taking…

Under a new bill signed into law last week in Oklahoma, couples who wish to divorce and have children will be required by law to go through an education program before their divorce is granted. The law will go into affect in on November 1, 2014. The sponsors of the bill, state Representative Jason Nelson (R) and Senator Rob Standridge (R), say the purpose is to educate parents about the effects of divorce on children as well as advising them about reconciliation. Senator Standridge stated, “If you are going through the whole divorce process and have kids, if we can…

Your first year of marriage is the most exciting time of your life. It is the opportune time to lay a solid foundation for the rest of your life together. Over the course of your first year, the majority of your time will be spent learning one another, adjusting to new life schedules, and doing life together. While you are learning the ride of marriage, it is easy to shy away from preparing your marriage for the future, and also developing healthy habits. Here are 3 actions that can destroy your marriage in the first year. 1. Living Day to…

Grammy-winning gospel legend Andraé Crouch is facing some “serious health challenges.” The 71-year-old’s twin sister Sandra Crouch has reached out to family, friends and fans of the iconic singer/songwriter soliciting prayers for her brother. Andraé, who is the Senior Pastor at Christ Memorial Church of God in Christ in Pacoima, Calif., was hospitalized recently and was just released last week. A Note From Crouch Family: Hello Friends, “Our dear Father in the gospel, Pastor Andraé Crouch, is facing some serious health challenges and was just released from the hospital last week. His music has encouraged us, helped many make a…

Trying to quit your sweet tooth cravings? Well “substituting” sugar may or may not be your best bet. Nowadays almost everything has sugar added to it, and worse, sugar is like a bad crook–it has all different kind of names. Must Read: 5 Things You Need To Know Before You Try This Fitness Challenge But not all sugar substitutes are the same, so read this before you start swapping out the real deal. That way you know what “sweet” you should eat. 1. Sugar Is Actually Not So Bad After All Sugar gets a bad rep. Many people overestimate the…

Does your hair seem a little less vibrant these days? You can be using the best hair products around, but the below seven things may make it harder to keep your locks healthy and strong. Your Meds According to medical experts, medications like statins, anti-depressants, anti-anxiety agents, and hormones can cause hair loss by disrupting the normal hair growth cycle. If you think this is happening to you, talk to your doctor about changing up your prescription, if possible. Your Shampoo (Or Rather, The Lack Of It) Women often don’t wash their hair as often as they should, in an…

I am stuck in a tough position. I have been at my job for a little over 2 years. I prayed for this job and felt like it was an answer to my prayer. My husband was let go from his job 10 months ago and since then, he has not been able to find another job. Well last month my job hired someone who was hired specifically to assist me with my work load. Little did I know that the new hire would be an ex boyfriend of mine. I had to train this guy and work closely with…

A suicidal person may not ask for help, but that doesn’t mean that help isn’t wanted. Most people who commit suicide don’t want to die—they just want to stop hurting. Suicide prevention starts with recognizing the warning signs and taking them seriously. If you think a friend or family member is considering suicide, you might be afraid to bring up the subject. But talking openly about suicidal thoughts and feelings can save a life. Understanding and preventing suicide Suicide is a desperate attempt to escape suffering that has become unbearable. Blinded by feelings of self-loathing, hopelessness, and isolation, a suicidal…

Don’t be afraid of change. You may lose something good, but you may gain something better! Here are 5 Signs It May Be Time For a New Job

Do you believe God will give you the desires of your heart if you delight in Him? Even if you do, waiting for them can be painful. You might get discouraged, wondering if God will answer your prayers. Or, you could become angry when you see Him blessing others with the desires of your heart. How do you thrive in the midst of a painful season of waiting? While you wait, God works behind the scenes on your behalf. Give Him time to arrange every detail so you will receive His best! God doesn’t want you to be miserable while…

The more time you spend with God, the less time you have to get in trouble.