The stages of relationships when doing it God’s way is pretty set, but there is always room for variations. Here is a quick guide into the 5 stages of a relationship when God is in the center of it. Please be aware there is so much more detail that could go into each stage, but for blogging I made an overview of each stage.  Friendship Stage The friendship stage can vary across the boards due to its different contexts.  For example, with Natasha and I, we were friends on Facebook for years but didn’t even know it. I know many…

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On an innocent stroll through the grocery store or a scan through our TV channels, we are constantly bombarded by advertisements promoting diet and exercise.  At the tips of our fingers are strategies for getting or staying in shape, as well as recipes for healthy living.  On top of that, our eyes are overloaded with images of physical “beauty” and “perfection.”  And, what do we do in response to all of these stimuli?  We ignore them, right?  WRONG! The truth is that we consumers fall prey to information obtained through our senses.  Some consumer research reports indicate that 22% of…

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Have you ever wondered if by struggling with sin, that makes you unsaved? In this short video from iBelieve.com, Hannah Anderson shares her POV. She says: “The fact that you are struggling means that God is at work. There was a time in your life when you didn’t struggle against sin, you embraced it. And the fact that when you fall, it is disheartening to you, difficult for you… that is proof that the Holy Spirit is at work in your life.” iBelieve.com: Am I still saved if I can’t stop struggling with the same sin? – Hannah Anderson from ibelievedotcom…

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You never know what to expect in the dating game. It has it’s ups and downs, it’s challenges and it’s rewards. I have been blessed though. No, I have not found that special one yet, but I won’t complain. I’ve dated a few guys (nothing serious) and although romantic relationships weren’t in God’s plan for us, we remained friends. One of which is my best friend. How cool is that? Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or taking a break from the dating scene, there’s a lesson to be learned. Here’s what I’ve learned as a single woman: 1. Leave a man for God, but never leave…

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Today you may be thinking… Today I don’t feel like praying.  I don’t feel like worshiping. I don’t feel like being Christian like. I just want to be angry. I don’t want to fight anymore. I just want to say forget it all.  I’m struggling with feelings of anger. I pray and it feels like God is silent.  I know that He’s listening and I know that He’s working things out for my good. However, my mind, body, and soul has not come to accept that yet.  My heart hurts. I feel like I can cry at any minute. I feel let down and…

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The world of dating is full of uncertainty. “Should I reply to this message?” “Should I flirt back?” “Should I try a second date?” Sometimes we find ourselves swept away in the possibility of a new relationship, only to find ourselves dropped out the other end of a dump truck. If there’s anything that could have protected us a little more from heartbreak, it’s probably a different set of boundaries. Talking about boundaries seems daunting. It’s such a broad subject, and everyone seems to have their own special interpretation of it. Especially in Christian circles, “boundaries” almost always means “physical…

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Who knew that this video would take on a whole new meaning when it was created? This is a tribute to Whitney’s greatest love of all; her daughter- Bobbi Kristina! Created over 4 years ago after Whitney Houston’s death. The song playing in the video is Whitney Houston’s ‘I Believe in You and Me’ and it is being sung by one of Whitney’s favorite, gospel singers, Kim Burrelle, live at the BET’s Honors right in front of Whitney. This has got to be the best tribute I’ve seen so far! May they both rest in peace now. They’re free.

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Facebook now has a feature that allows you to look back at memories from past years; ‘On This Day’. Well today it reminded me of something. I remembered an event that happened three years ago this week—one that changed the trajectory of my life and my eternity. This was an event that shattered my world, broke my heart, so painful. It was an event that left me feeling so lost and so a lone. However, it’s also an event that started a beautiful walk with Christ— a journey which truly demonstrates how God turns everything to good for His glory. It was…

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The bible is pretty clear.  It instructs us parents to teach our children God’s Word. But teaching a 6 year old who would much rather be running around carelessly about the bible can feel like mission impossible. How do you hold their attention? How do you communicate in a way they can understand? What if I told you that your child could discover God’s truth in unforgettable ways, retaining up to 90 percent of what they’re taught? Not only that, but they’ll look forward to their bible lessons because every lesson is fun, playful, and packed with active learning. Kids shouldn’t just hear God’s Word. They should experience…

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