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Hello, I have enjoyed your daily comments that you leave on Facebook, they are wonderful. Some hit home and others are very interesting to read. So many things have also been eye openers for our daughter but we are pretty sure it goes in one ear and out the other. We have a 27 year old daughter who lives at home, which we don’t have a problem with. It is normal for our culture for that to happen. We are from outside of the US and we are taught from a young age that you stay with your parents until…

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It’s the beginning of the 3rd month of the year, and it seems that the New Year is no longer new after all. I can’t believe we are halfway through the first quarter already. Usually, at the beginning of a new year, some people like me write out their goals, some call it new year resolutions, while some just make a list or mental note of the things they’d like to achieve in that year; be it personal, career, spiritual, emotional etc. Most people with a sense of purpose make goals that have the potential to make them a better…

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I’m sure by now most of you have come across the video of Pastor, DeVon Franklin and Actress/ First Lady, Meagan Good as they joined One Church L.A. for “The Wait” – Kingdom Love 2 (Valentine’s Day Event). During the event, Devon and Meagan shared their journey of celibacy prior to getting married as well as promoted their new book based off their journey ‘ The Wait’. During the Q & A part of the event, one of the audience members called Meagan Good out on her lack of modesty when it comes to her choice of clothing. “This is…

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I love the fact that Valentines Day will always be a special day in my life regardless of my relationship status. Six years ago, I remember sitting in a church service thinking to myself ‘But why God? Another Valentines Day and l’m still single! Seriously though God, what happened to you giving me the desires of my heart because l don’t understand where my saved younger version of Richard Gere with a slight hint of Sheldon Cooper is right now’. I was feeling very sad and broken, I might have been in tears, okay l was crying but then the most amazing thing happened to me! There l…

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My roommate finally walked in. It was our very first day at the university. We exchanged our details then she asked… “What does your mom do?” I had to think very fast because I was not about to say “she sells fruits and vegetables”… so instead I said “she works at a bank” That’s what I told her and everybody else I met at the university. You see this didn’t seem like a big lie at first. They don’t even know me and they will never really find out about my mom. It might have been a small lie but I had given…

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After 4 1/2 years of employment with the bank, I’d just been fired. Relief and uncertainty followed as I gathered my belongings and headed out the door. Later that evening, I headed off to Bible Study. Service was great. I felt renewed, rejuvenated and was ready for a new start.  Fast forward three weeks later… The mortgage was due and my funds were low. Two weeks prior, the car broke down and my small “egg nest” had been depleted. Rewind…Three years earlier. I’d just purchased my first home. My daughter was attending private school, which meant monthly tuition payments had…

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Perhaps you know the feeling of waiting for your phone to charge? You’ve run out of batteries, you’ve plugged the phone in and now there’s nothing to do but sit and wait? And even if it really only takes a matter of minutes (and even though it’s nothing more than a phone), you start to feel tense and anxious, wondering how long this could possibly take. Most people don’t like to wait. We often get frustrated waiting on fast food or waiting behind the slow car in the fast lane. We are always in a rush to get to the…

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We are alive to say we made it through 2015 and it’s all because God saw us through. We have been through trials and triumphs, but despite it all God saw us through. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” ( Jeremiah 29:11 ). I am here to proclaim the word of God and laugh at the enemy because he thought he had the upper hand on my life. I almost gave up, but Glory be to God I MADE IT THROUGH…

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Scripture provides no list of qualifications for a pastor’s wife. Pastors and deacons are covered in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, but the pastor’s wife? She doesn’t show up, at least in terms of suitability for an office. Nevertheless, some churches have their own set of unwritten qualifications for the pastor’s wife, many of which create unrealistic expectations and abundant misconceptions. These can place undue pressure on the wife of a pastor. This shouldn’t be the case, however, since Scripture knows no such formal category. Here are five popular misconceptions about the pastor’s wife: 1. You have it all together. Some will assume you’ve worked through all your issues. Sure, you may struggle, but…

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Christmas has long represented joyful family gatherings and sharing generational holiday traditions. Television commercials, billboards on highways, and even annual entertainment events portray happiness as intact families celebrating in peace and harmony. Grief has a way of shuffling up emotions during this time of year. Christmas, especially, can bring to surface sorrows that burrow deep within our hearts after significant loss. We plead with God to hasten us through the days of December. In spite of deep faith, many of us emotionally limp through November and December, breathing a sigh of relief as the calendar welcomes January. January gives us…

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For some, the Holidays bring an influx of emotions. Emotions that have neatly stayed tucked away somewhere in our spirits and come protruding out of us at the first mention of “Jingle Bells” or the first sight of a nicely decorated Thanksgiving table. If you are anything like me, the Holidays brings you a sense of mourning. Mourning a loved one who once was the figure who brought the family together for the holiday, and since has passed on. My late mother was that person in our family. She often had the Christmas Tree up and decorated well before Thanksgiving…

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Though people say this for their own reasons. It often deeply saddens me when I hear, “I’m Spiritual but not Religious.”  To me, people say this in part because though they have a relationship with God, they want nothing or little to do with the Church. First of all, we ARE the Church. And frequently, people are misguided in thinking that Church is merely the infrastructure or the place they go to on Sundays. That is incorrect. On the other hand, though it saddens me, I really do understand why people who know God have reservations about the Church. It…

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Happy Sunday Everyone! What an awesome way to start a new month. By giving God all the praises! This video of the Willis Family- Brittney, 12. Makayla, 9. Baby Jah Jah (lil drummer boy), 2., Mom, Sherica Cooks Willis, and Dad, Toddrick W Willis has gone viral. Being viewed over 4,668,378 times throughout social media and probably 100 of those views are from me. 🙂 In the video, The Willis Family sings an original song, “Good God” Yep an original song, written & arranged by The Willis Family. I truly enjoyed looking and listening to the entire family, but I…

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