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I thank God for my emptiness. It is like a gift wrapped haphazardly by the Giver in an unappealing wrapper. You wouldn’t know how beautiful it is until you’ve opened it. If it wasn’t for that hungry pang for something better, I wouldn’t have strived harder. If it wasn’t for that emptiness, I wouldn’t have been desperate to search for an answer. I would have been complacent. I might have been living contentedly with “just enough”. Your emptiness can do stupendous things in your life. My emptiness did these incredible things in my life: My emptiness gave me the drive…

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At an early age I learned that God created me different from everyone else. What made me different was my visual flaw, when everyone saw me they saw my flaw. I’m opening a wound that has healed, but it’s my story. Imagine being singled out by another eight year old because your skin was different from theirs, no one wanting to stand by you, or even be your friend because you were born different. Can we say self esteem issues? I was just a kid that wanted to be accepted.  From childhood to becoming a teenager I was a very…

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“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” Philippians 4:11 Being content when things are NOT the way you want them. Yeah – this can be a tough pill to swallow and I’m talking from personal experience here. Let’s just get the real reason this is a challenge out of the way – we’re human with feelings and flaws. Yup, that pretty much sums it up. And we have a want what I want when I want it mentality. So being content in life circumstances that are not what…

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I had a roller coaster ride that almost drove me out of my wits two years ago.  I transformed into the monster that I did not know existed.  I felt anger so intense it almost consumed me.  At one point, I really think it did.  I made wrong decisions, spoke words of contempt, cursed a couple of people (and myself), stayed up late thinking, plotting, and lashing myself with an invisible whip until I was left exhausted physically, emotionally and spiritually.  It was a nightmare.  I was murdered emotionally and I started becoming a criminal myself by punishing the other…

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I have four very powerful words for you that I want you to clench tightly to, and cherish forever in your heart no matter what situation you find yourself in when it comes to love and relationships. When this world tries to break you down and you find yourself hanging on to life by a thread, please remember this and let these words be your lifeline: YOU ARE WORTH IT! Can you recall a time in your life when you felt as if you were not good enough, like no matter what you try to do you will never be…

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I know you have probably heard this question before, “Do 2 Wrongs Make a Right?” The answer is emphatically no! When you have two wrongs you simply have two wrongs. The is especially true when it comes to disagreements or should I say arguing. When you find disagreements and arguments creeping up as a part of your life, take a step back and assess the situation. Yes, assess the situation. It may feel strange doing this if you are used to protecting yourself with your words.  However, if you want to lessen the arguments and disagreements you have in your…

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I honestly believe that when we go through things, God is truly the ONLY one who can really help. It seems like it would be so much easier and less painful for somebody to give us the answers, fix it, and take away the pain, but most of the time you’ll just become confused. Real change has to come from within. You have to get it, have to click with it inside, for it to really make a difference in your life. *That being said here are 2 hints to point you in the right direction for lifting that load.…

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10 Things Every Girl Should Learn from Her Mother Two of my greatest blessings have been having an amazing single mother raise me and being a mother to an amazing daughter. I’m so grateful God used me as the vessel to deliver my daughter into the world and made me responsible for her upbringing. Although I’ve had parenting challenges along the way, I wouldn’t trade this role for any other in the world. My mommy title forces me to be a woman of noble character as consistently as possible. It’s critical that I am mindful of my behaviors as well as the words I…

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Philippians 4:13 – “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” “Self-worth could very well, possibly be a lifetime lesson. I am 36 years old and honestly, I’ve really just started learning the importance of this 2 years ago.” Many of today’s role models in entertainment are promoting this to young women: “The shorter the shorts, the better and the lower the cleavage the better.” “Seven-inch platform heels are hot, strippers are cool, and twerking is sexy.”  Like this is what will get someone’s attention. This makes you sexy and sexy is important. Sexy is what gets the…

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Top 4 Things That Distract Us From God There are a lot of things that can distract us from God. Sometimes we don’t even realize that they are distracting us. Sometimes it’s a constant struggle to keep our eyes fixed on God, and to not become distracted by the passing concerns and things of this world. But if we are aware of what can, and does, interfere with our walks with God, we can begin to take the necessary actions to prevent them. Remember, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added…

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Did you know that you can be your worst enemy? Your thoughts, words, attitude, and actions all have the power to block your blessings. We’re all on a spiritual journey to peace and happiness and in order for us to get there we must first learn to do what’s best for us spiritually. Here are 5 Ways You May Be Blocking Your Own Blessings … 1. Negativity- Negative thoughts can become negative words, and we all know words have power. Negative thinking can keep us captive. We can unknowingly choke our own blessings with negative thoughts. We tend to think…

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