In the wake of engagement season, the blossoming of flowers and the ever so present visits of pollen, single women have found themselves both congratulating and wishing. Being happy for friends and family who are taking that next step in life, but wishing that it was their time. I can’t tell you how many times I have had conversations with friends about how we’re happy with God and YouTube videos, but then there’s that one post. That post that makes you get down on your knees and ask the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob why you’re still single. When…
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When there is greatness on the horizon, the devil will always send “The Counterfeit Man”. His witty methods are designed to block blessings, good juju, and a great man, but when God has something amazing for you, it will go beyond your comprehension. I am sure you are wondering who is the counterfeit man? The counterfeit man is any man who distracts, delays, interrupts, or totally obstructs God’s plan for the single woman’s life. God’s plan for the single woman’s future is often hindered when she becomes involved with “The Counterfeit Man” I found myself in an all wrong relationship when I…
No matter how right they feel, some relationships are better left in the past. Here are three Reminders About Ungodly Relationships…
If you want to end the cycle of bad relationships, it’s time to check the three V’s in your life.
Make God’s word the final word. Here are 7 Things The Bible Says About Relationships…
So I read an article on why single ladies can’t find their Boaz, David and Joseph. Very insightful and interesting article. The writer mentioned a key point which led me down a road of other thoughts. He stated that these notable men in the Bible did not have life all figured out but they definitely were connected to God and walked with Him. This shared fact had me thinking: David was a man after God’s heart; Joseph was revered as being a man of such great integrity. And Boaz? I can’t count the number of times that I’ve heard my single…
“Adam & Eve weren’t married, “ he said. I was dumbfounded. I couldn’t believe my boyfriend, a minister in training, was trying to convince me to sleep with him prior to marriage by using Bible characters. When I persisted in saying no, he told me my desire to abstain was a “good goal,” but wasn’t realistic. This man wasn’t the only “church player” I dated prior to meeting and marrying my husband. Another man warned me not to be “so heavenly minded that I was no earthly good.” I found out later that he was messing around with many sisters in…
As we approach the month of April I am reminded of the time I fasted from men for an entire month. I made this decision, because I was an emotional wreck over a relationship that was a total mess. It in turn left me a mess. I went from being confident and focused to feeling rejected and unloved. It was the beginning of 2014, and I had hit a low point already. I desperately needed something different than what I had been experiencing, and I knew only God could fix me. During the month of March 2014, I was really…
Not sure if you’re Idolizing Something or Someone? If you find yourself nodding through this list, you’ve got work to do.
On Valentine’s Day my husband gave me this tiny piece of artwork to put on my desk—something to make me laugh. Do you know what it says? It says, “Love you more than my iPhone.” Honesty, it had me cracking up because if the two of us aren’t mindful about our habits, someone can definitely be left feeling like they are competing with the iPhone for some love. Technology is an amazing thing. It allows you to stay connected to people miles away, form great friendships with people you have never met in person, and even launch businesses that you…
A relationship is not based on the time you’ve spent together, but the foundation you’ve built together. Let prayer be that foundation.
I couldn’t believe it happened to me. My first heartbreak came from a man of God. He was actually the son of a preacher, with aspirations to lead his own flock one day. Out of all the silly, mediocre relationships I’d been in that amounted to nothing, I just knew I had hit the jackpot when I started dating my man of God. I just knew we’d get married and live happily ever after. Why? Because, he was a Christian man. He wouldn’t leave me. He wouldn’t break my heart. Blah blah, blah… I can’t decide what hurt me the…
Here are 7 Rules every Christian marriage should follow:
There should be a difference between what you desire and what you require.
These three tips can help you avoid making the following mistakes. Here are three biggest mistakes Christians make when dating:
If you are in a relationship or you are engaged and getting cold feet… Here are 5 Signs You May Not Be Ready For Marriage
When God wants two hearts to meet, He moves both of them, not just one.
Many singles dread Valentine’s Day. While guys and girls have their own specific set of challenges that stem from this holiday; the single woman’s struggle is unique for many reasons. Many women have been taught to hold Valentine’s Day in high regard and often feel like they’re lacking in the relationship area of their life if they are single on Valentine’s Day or any other day of the year. Living in Los Angeles I have the privilege of being friends with women from diverse ethnic groups; and one thing they all have in common is that they’re all looking for…
People tend to look at someone’s appearance. God looks at the heart.
If you’re single, prayer for your future husband is a must. Here are 3 Things Every Woman Should Pray For Her Future Husband.


